Ashley Trayder
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Whats your addiction?
You name it
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What is your idea of living the good life?
Living in the moment and being worry free
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What is the most expensive thing you own ?
Is it shameful it would most likely be one of my lotions...
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If money was no concern, what would you do for the rest of your life?
Travel the world with Johnny in a heartbeat.
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What one thing do you need to do next?
Turn on music, get off my laptop and back to the housework.
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What do you want most out of life?
Adventure, happiness, and good friends.
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If you lost everything tomorrow, whose arms would you run into to make everything ok ?
I don't really have anybody there for me, but I also don't have any material items of importance to me if that's what I'm guessing the question means, loosing my drawings, paintings, and photos would upset me, but not a tragedy.
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What is your motto?
Just take it step by step, one day at a time.
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What is your current state of mind?
Happy.
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What is your idea of perfect happiness ?
Corny answer but truthfully playing with Johnny and making him laugh.
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What's under your bed?
My nerf gun collection (security, yah know ;) ), a box of xbox & ps accessories, and a big box of folded up boxes for Dandelion Dreams.
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What cheers you up ?
I ask myself that all the time.
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Would you rather be ugly and live forever or Hot and live for a year ?
Why not captain Jack Harkness?
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Why should people love you ?
I make mean cocktails, everybody needs that in their lives.
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What's something you've done that you had to be brave for?
Many, many things. Living with anxiety is just a constant battle. I guess the bigger things would be getting my own place and taking on all those responsibilities, working during a difficult pregnancy, giving birth without pain killers, then taking on a child when I had no experience and knew nothing of babies or small kids because I've never been a fan and never wanted them, and completely on my own all when I'd just turned 18. And every day is the same since than, just long, hard, exhausting, and pretty lonely.
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Rate yourself out of 10
Trick question.
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What do you hate about yourself ?
What a lovely question to have everyone on this website contemplating..... :/
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What do you want right now ?
Nothing, I'm content, although chocolate never hurts.
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Thoughts about Game of thrones season 5 finale ?
I just had parts ruined for me because some american show came on last night that were going on about massive spoilers with no warning, I'm still waiting to watch season 4! No spoilers, people!
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Really all great colors.
Well I think so ;)
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What is your favorite color?
I'm partial to mauve, mint, lilac, & crimson but I don't really have a favourite.
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Do you like girls or boys better?
*ex can't define a person, that's like saying "green eyed people, or blue eyed people". Depends on the individual :)
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You like dogs or cats?
both are awesome, I've always wanted a dog but they're so much more work than cats.
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What activity always makes you lose track of time?
Too many. Books, tumblr, games, washing dishes...
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What is the longest you have gone without taking a bath?
2 days, 3 hours, 21 minutes and 3 seconds. I've kept a very exact journal in the bathroom I fill out daily, just so I can answer dumb questions like this...
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Which movie s*cked for you this year ?
I haven't seen any movies this year... now I feel really friendless, thanks a lot, QOOH ME :P
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If you could describe your relationship with each of your siblings as a colour, which colour would it be and why? Different answer for each sibling.
....mum?? get off my qooh me!. Jk but I do wonder haha. Black for my sister because it's not a colour: there's no relationship there. Blue for my brother because we're cool :)
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If your bank account had a mood ,what mood would it be in right now?
Probably like a tired stripper.
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What is your favourite comfort food?
I don't think I really have a food so much as hot drinks, hot chocolate, chai lattes, teas, even milo sometimes.
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What is the longest you have gone without taking a bath?
I run myself a bath every hour on the dot, I have unbelievably soft skin.
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If you had to get Married at the age made up by the last two Digits of your phone number How old would u be?
30 sounds seasonable but my god, the same year I'll have a teenager on my hands.
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What is your favourite scent?
That's way too hard to answer. Always liked fresh bread, vanilla, earthy scents, spices, but so many blends compliment each other it would take me all day to name them all.
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Who was the last person to break your heart ?
I'm not going near that can of worms.
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Something you regret buying and why ?
First thing that comes to mind is a $250 book set, while I was working and pregnant, so I've only ever found time to read two out of the ten books. Maybe one day...
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What was your first cellphone ?
You can really tell the age differences on this one, everybody either had a nokia or iphone... I remember having my mums old nokia, so I'm one of the oldies on this site.
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Finish this sentence: I wish someone would just...
Have integrity, Appreciate & respect others and nature, and stop using both for their own selfish intentions. Material things come before friendship, convenience comes before doing what's right. We've become so disconnected and self centered.
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What are Jonny's favourite places to hide your stuff?
He has set places for different things, he likes putting little things from my room inside my guitar but the bigger things he'll walk across the hall and chuck in the toilet. Hard/heavy things he takes to the bathroom and drops in the tub to hear the clash. My wallet/keys/phone he hides inside draws. But most the time he puts anything that fits inside the boot of his ride-on car.
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What is your biggest fear in life
A person hurting me or Johnny, anything bad happening to Johnny in general
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Do you have any sisters or brothers?
I have both :)
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What do you love most about living in what I like to call AUSSIE LAND. ;) :D
Well compared to where I've stayed in America, it's more scenic, more produce available and less junk food, and I've found american humor/culture is a bit different, like they're not as overall friendly as aussies but people in customer service are almost over-the-top friendly which is strange when you're not used to it. But I do want to go back to america, the tv shows are great, everything is so damn cheap, and I have a sweet tooth ;) Other than that comparison, sometimes I'm proud of my country, other times not, there is a lot that could be improved socioeconomically.
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Whats the thing you liked the most about your Ex ?
Obviously depends which one.
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Last person you argued with and why ?
The same arguments that always happens, with myself.
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What gives you peace?
Earthy scented incense, and when things are clean, or when Johnny has just fallen asleep and I finally feel sane again, not 100%, but sane-ish.
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Who do you envy and why ?
People who see their friends often and don't know what it's like to be all on your own for weeks at a time.
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Who told you they loved you last
The words are great but actions are better. Johnny gave me a good five minute long hug before bed, holding on like he'd float away if he let go :)
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Dream holiday destination ?
Probably cliche but France, Morocco, Italy, Ireland, New Zealand, India... lets just say if I ever won a free holiday anywhere I could never be even slightly disappointed ;)
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What are you allergic to?
What a clever way to find out how to kill off everyone on qooh.me
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What has wasted your time the most this year ?
Housework. When I start working I'm absolutely going to see that as an excuse to buy a dishwasher, clothes dryer, robotic vacuum etc haha
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If money was no object, what would you do all day?
Travel and paint people from all around the world.
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Is it tru u gona stop breast fedn at age 12? It ain't rite, shuld stop at 18 mnths
12?? breastfeeding has benefits right through the teen years too ya know, I'll stop after 21 years if we're both ready so soon
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What’s my best physical feature?
Websites be fishing for compliments.
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How much do you weigh?
Who would know what they weigh.
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Your biggest wish ?
For my mum to be healthy and free from all the hospitals, needles, drugs, dialysis, chemo, radioherapy. To see the look on her face if that were possible.
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What's your favorite fashion item ?
the heads of my vanquished enemies
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What turns you off ?
Super clingy people who flip their **** if you're not in contact with them 24-7 and take a few hours or a day to reply, as if they give a damn what you're eating for breakfast or going to the supermarket for.
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Do the mermaids ever keep some of your money?
Yeah, they borrow it and always say they'll pay me back, but do they? nope!
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What is your bank balance ?
Bank? I put all my monies in jars and throw them into the sea trusting one day they'll return when I need them. dumb question = dumb answer.
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Your Dream Job?
Being self reliant/ living off the grid. Solar power, growing my own food, filtering river water etc and selling my paintings or drawings for any spending money I need (like maybe during bad weather when I can't grow veggies/fruit).
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Would you rather eat only slugs and catapillers for the rest of your life or magic mushroomed and Mosquitos?
Magic mushrooms all the way. Slugs is the only things besides maggots that I actually get squirmish over.
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At what age do you want to get married ?
**** that
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Where do you want to live when you older?
Maybe in a van, seeing as many places as I possibly can :)
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If you had the choice to make others vegan also would you do so? Say family or friends? And without their concent, or would that be unethical?
I don't think it would be unethical considering it's killing and mistreating animals. There are laws about animal abuse, and killing people yet nobody asks if they are unethical laws. It's just society and the way people are raised that they see eating meat as the norm, there has been a lot of injustices in the past where people are bought up believing it's the norm so they don't question it too much.
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Ooh no Santa! That's breaking out of the mould. How do you feel about growing up without that tradition?
Well I don't know if it makes much difference with Santa, we all still got gifts just all from our mum, who actually chose and bought them for us and wanted the credit obviously haha ;)
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What makes you most happy?
Friends, traveling, nature, accomplishment, my boy.
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I think you should go to the slaughterhouses. Not that I think you should suffer the suffering but wouldn't that make sense? If vegans are against killing of animals why don't they protest rather just say 'I'm not part of the problem, so I'm not the problem'
There are plenty of animal activists in melbourne, I'm involved with animals australia and animal lib but I'm sure there are plenty more. What makes you think I haven't protested and helped out animal right causes whenever I can. I know I post my fair share on facebook but I don't go publicizing every aspect of my life.
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Hey just read your response to 'meat made evolution' there's justice in what you say but remember, it is human who is cruel not consumption of meat. If everyone ate meat from one abattoir where every worker treated animals inhumanely then it would be correct
It has little to do with abattoirs, that's just where the animals are killed. I was referring to the way they are treated until they're seen as big enough to kill. It also leaves out egg and dairy farms where cows are kept pregnant forcibly so they're constantly lactating, the cows as well as laying hens are kept in horrible refined spaces where they can't turn around, all the males are slaughtered as useless asides from so many kept for veal, the male chickens are put into grinders alive because it's seen as the most efficient way to kill the mass of them, some places even put them in dumpsters still alive and let them slowly starve to death on top of already dead rotting chics.
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People have been wondering if your pregnant again because you made posts asking about newborn clothes and stuff.
I made one status a while ago asking for maternity wear for a friend who hasn't told people she's expecting yet, but not my size hence the status. From the Qs I've been getting you'd think I was posting ultrasound pictures daily. I didn't know you're supposed to avoid all pregnant women or else people will think it's contagious.
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What Christmas traditions to you imagine having with Johnny?
I have no idea, I'm not religious and last year he was 3 weeks old and we didn't even have an actual tree just some branches in a vase. I guess they'll come over time. I don't know if his fathers family has many traditions, I think they go with the whole santa clause thing which I wasn't bought up with.
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What are your favourite art mediums? Why?
Dry pastel and pencils because you can take your time and easily blend. I really want to try pastel pencils but never have.
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If humans never ate meat they wuld not evolved such conscious thought, in that, making the decision vegan or vegetarian could not hav existed, eating meat is responsible 4 ur conscious decision 2 not eat meat. By any means, eating meat is ethical?
A lot of non meat eating animals have displayed compassion, if you have a pet I'm sure you agree, that's definitely not bought on by eating meat. Humans are herbivores by nature, we have the longer digestive tracks of plant eaters which is arguably why we've developed a lot of diseases like cancer because meat is in our system longer than it would be a natural carnivores. I'm not out to convert everybody to veganism but if we are to eat meat we should at least show some heart and treat the animals raised for it a lot better, this mass consumption of animal products is leading to terrible abuse of animals and destroying the planet, I think factory farming shows that humans really aren't as evolved as they seam to think they are.
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are you pregnant again?
The only reason I haven't drop kicked the people who've asked me this lately is because I'm obviously not, if I had of gained weight or something it would be annoying as hell, but I don't get why people are asking this.
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What's your favorite thing about yourself?
My strength.
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Best song you've heard this week ?
Been listening to the violent femmes the past few days, sweet misery blues is a new one I've liked but hard question.
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Why did you initially decide to be vegan? What do you like about it now? What is hardest about being vegan?
So I wouldn't be supporting the horrible ways australia treats animals raised for meat or other products, it's a completely heartbreaking situation and I encourage anyone who consumes animal products to find out just what they're putting in their bodies and supporting. Being vegan makes me feel much better and healthier overall. It is hard to get enough B12 and iron but you get the knack of finding sources that suit your diet and lifestyle (eg adding flaxseed to smoothies), been more difficult once Johnny was born and the majority of my vitamin intake goes to him now so I occasionally been having dairy products the past few months to get extra B12 without having to overeat, but very keen to go back fully vegan again! :)
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did you polish your head when you were bald?
What a stupid question.
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are your nipples as large as they are in your paintings?
To my knowledge there has never been a painting of my nipples so I can't answer...
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What would you suggest everyone try ?
Everything once. Meth, running nude in the middle of melbourne, become a yodeling superstar, paint mountains, slash tires.
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Craziest thing you ever did for money ?
I can think of a ton of weird stuff and dares, but probably working my as* off while pregnant for $8 an hour to try and survive on, killing myself in the process, was the maddest **** I did.
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What do you do when you angry?
Aggressively clean.
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What time do you sleep?
I'm a parent.
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What's been some of the best support/help/friendship you received since being pregnant and having a baby? How can your friends & family support you best now?
That is really hard to answer, I've got a lot of support so it's hard to name it all, I really appreciate the friends that stayed in touch, a lot have just forgot about me like 'who wants to hang out with the pregnant chic or that girl with a kid' but in a way it was nice to learn who really are friends. I don't know about support, I know I'm happier when friends are around a lot, s*cks living all on my own.
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What are your favorite primary/middle school memories?
I hated those years, I don't think there's many good memories let alone favourites.
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Are you and johnny's dad still together?
We're only close friends, never been in a relationship.
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What are your top three goals for the next three years?
Visit France, Paris and the countryside. Improve at painting, quality and speed, working on my second painting at the moment and It's taking a long time. Master at very least my ukelele music wise.
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What are your top five Tassie memories.
I lived there a long time ago now, it's hard to think of five things. I loved all the nature and living nearby so many beaches, I remember riding my bike everywhere exploring tracks, hidden places, following rivers to see where they go. I remember hanging upside down on the monkey bars with Cheryl & Lauren. Renting movies and having fun times with Laura Drysdale. Climbing trees every day and sitting in them drawing. I remember my "cubby house" underneath the apricot tree and sometimes I'd find actual mail in the letterbox thing there, I think somebody was very confused ha.