Desconfianza
Desconfianza
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Searching for something else brought me to your blog. Just wondering how many girls you have loved so far
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What would be the perfect date according to you?
DD-MM-yyyy is least confusing, but if everybody move to yyyy-MM-DD, now that'd be perfect!
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I love you jvm.
I might love you too... Any clue please
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What is the best advice you’ve ever been given?
One advice that I always remember is "It is easier to apologize than to take permission"
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"njaan ninne kaanunnathin munpum aambal kan thuranu erikkam
niinooday midunnathin munpum raavil nilaavu vannirikkaam
onnum njaan arinjirunnathe ellaa nee ennil nirayum vareeyum" :ONV
Happy friendversary!!
Sshedaa... Itaarappa!
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Do you believe in soul mates?
I so vehemently do.
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Do you believe in soul mates?
I so vehemently do.
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Do you hold grudges or do you forgive easily?
I forgive easily and with people I love, sometimes way too easily. I can't hold grudges at all.
There are times I've walked up the stairs and slammed the doors and forget in 5 minutes that I've fought with someone.
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What are the qualities you’re looking for in someone you want to grow old with?
I don't think I have a huge laundry list of things I'm looking for in someone I want to grow old with, but there are some things that I would love to have in THE one.
I want someone with stories. I don't think I can grow old with someone who does not have, love or cherish the tiny tales.
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Who can say where the road goes?
only time...
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What popular thing doesn't appeal to you?
Parties.
I just don't get it at all! Never been interested in one.
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Lemme know the expectations about your partner?
I don't have expectations set in stone regarding my spouse.
Somebody with stories would be lovely. Someone well-read, preferably well-travelled is nice.
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What is one thing you know if you stopped doing, you would save so much money?
Impulse purchases I suppose.
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What kind of physical features in a person are you attracted to?
Full lips
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What was the last lie you told?
On reading this I told myself, I DON'T LIE!! That one.
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What's stopping you from being the best version of you?
I think it should be risk aversion.
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What have you noticed about yourself recently?
Not very recently, but I noticed that I do care selectively about what people think. Quite a lot of people think I don't really care what others think. I myself thought I don't really care. But in fact I do in many cases.
But it is hard for me to figure out which cases cause me to consider what others think and which don't.
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What do you do when you miss someone so badly, it's your birthday, and there's no way you can pay for a flight ticket to go meet that person?
You s*ck it up and move on. Worked for me!
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Does getting hitched make you speed up from 3G to 4G/LTE??
At least in one documented case, a 3G had gone to Edge on getting hitched.
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Why "blue ticks"?
A lion share of it is fiction or fictionized and almost all of it overstated. But yes that message got ignored (for a few days until the original recipient surprisingly read the post and replied to the message)
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What causes you to stay up late?
Today it was blue ticks
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Are you sure you didn't eat the apple??
Yes. But not for the lack of trying.
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After all that we've been through together, Why did you do it? Why did you succumb to it?
I didn't eat the apple I swear!
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Why are you not a vegan??
Have you ever had bacon?
I'm not vegan or vegetarian because I do not see the logic. It is sad to kill somebody, I totally agree. But if I have to kill something or mutilate something, I'd prefer killing.
Just because a plant doesn't cry or bleed like you do, doesn't mean it does not experience pain. In fact there are studies that show that plants experience pain.
The fact that they can grow it back doesn't give you a moral ground to do it.
It is like people. Some people do not show pain or show amazing resilience to hurt. But that shouldn't be your excuse to hurt them intentionally over and over.
I'd hence prefer killing a chicken than chopping arms of a spinach.
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Are you doing something you truly love. If no, is it out of necessity that you do what you do.
I am doing something I truly love. I've always wanted to be a programmer ever since I wrote my first program in BASIC.
But is this the best I can do. I believe not.
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What do you want to hate, but can't?
One person who broke my trust.
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Do you like apples or oranges? or both?
Pears, if you know what I mean. ;)
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Does time actually heal the worst of wounds?? And if it does, why hasn't my wound healed?
Time might heal some wounds reasonably well. If your wound is not healing to your liking, there might be a lot of reasons.
1) Have you given it enough time to heal? Some wounds run deep. Some of them run wide. The deeper ones take longer to heal.
2) Did you let it heal? Or did you keep poking at it in rainy nights, long journeys and when in wayside cafes in far off places?
3) Do you have a wound really? Or do you just feel the itch where it was once present? May be you see a faint scar and imagine the wound all over again. Scar lasts a lot longer than the wound and might never go off; but it is not a wound anymore unless you make it one.
Your body and soul can heal wounds if you let it. Some takes longer, some fester, some get infected but they all heal. It would take more than just time. Sometimes you need to nurse it to heal better without leaving a scar. Stay strong.
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Would you date me?
You know I can't answer that without knowing anything about you. But quite possibly yes.
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If the world were to end in a day, what would be the last thing you want to do before it all comes crashing down ?
Do you know the Malayalam poem "Maranamethunna Nerath"?
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In a zombie apocalypse, what is your choice of weapon(s)?
Suicide.
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Were the last five years of your life any better than the five years before it?
The beginning of this current set of five years was much tougher than the previous set. But the second half is much better than that of the earlier set.
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But Desconfianza isn't exactly a cute name. is it?
I meant "first" not "cutest" auto correct messed it up and there is no way to edit it. I've posted a correction comment below it
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Stuck in a loop doing the one exact thing over and over again. What would that one thing be?
Falling in love with someone I love to hate
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What are you most proud of?
I am most proud of my self acceptance. I know who I am, was and would be.
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Have you ever had your heart broken?
It wasn't broken, but it was stolen and never returned. It was bruised, beaten, torn and hammered but they couldn't break it. Not yet.
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When do you plan to get married?
I haven't planned it yet. But I should be ready when I find someone perfect for our collective imperfections. Someone who would not give up... someone I wouldn't want to give up.
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Name 10 memorable people in your life.
(Just first name would do)
Just the cutest name would do? Then that would be mine.
*Didn't think I can wrestle my way out of this one*
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Whom did you write those unposted letters to?
All those were not written to the same person. But a good majority was written to someone I loved a lot yesterday, but less than tomorrow.
I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love. ~ Mother Theresa
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How many kilometers from Washington DC to Miami beach ?
Is this some sort of captcha to prove that I am a Malayalee?
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Have you ever had any regrets? Or let me put it this way...Name one moment in your life where you could go back in time via a time machine and change it? Or maybe change the way you had acted then or the choice that you took back then.
If I had a time machine, I would probably go back in time and just live it all over again. There are distinct points in time that I can change and become a different man, but it is doubtful if I would want to become a different man. My regrets are very silly like deciding to watch a movie next week but the movie changes before I watch it.
Something I feel very guilty till date is something that happened at Malampuzha when I was a kid. Dad got my little sister and me hydrogen balloons. It was tied to our hands. She found hers little loose and came to 5-6 year old big brother to tighten it and I did. But I actually made it worse and it flew off from her hand. I did not offer her my balloon. I still live with that guilt. If anything, I would go back in time and give her my balloon or let Dad tie the string tightly so that we both would have had balloons.
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Well that person did annoy me. I'm sorry if you thought that was me its really not, I don't like to swear much. And whoever this person is you should really stop with the rude words now and go somewhere that you actually matter
Oh sorry that I confused you anonymous person with another anonymous person on an anonymous internet forum.
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I'm not the same person who said that thing about sounding sweet???I just saw how stupid you were being and decided to comment Coz everyone knows that person meant years and you went on really sarcastic and dumb!
Thanks for making me wise by that much needed awakening call of a comment. How stupid of me was that! I am much wiser now. Thank you sir/madam.
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Look here I'm the person who sent you the first thing and second thing about your age..... I have no clue who sent you the last two qoohs?I find it really weird someone would act like me ? That really wasn't me who made that rude remark??
Oh fret no more. That is the beauty of anonymity. You never know who said what. And it would take more than a few exclamation marks and dot dot dots to annoy me. I didn't find that rude who ever said that. It was fun!
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Omf!!! 11 years ....23 years..... 62 years.... 41 years.... 14 years old!! Why the f are you so annoying
That is an interesting question. Why am I annoying? Hmm..
From "I really like how you answer your questions and how calm and sweet you sound." to "Why the f are you so annoying" in under 36 minutes. That is a new record. Thank you.
So back to why am I annoying. It could be because of one or more of the following.
1) I like to mess with people.
2) I really like to mess with people who cannot put in a little more effort into things.
3) Writing plain vanilla answers is not really my thing. I think it lacks a jxing factor I want people to think I have.
4) I am not terribly worried about rubbing some people the wrong way. You know what I mean?
And my age in human years? What is the fun in telling an answer directly? Do you like treasure hunts? I love them. You follow this link and you can find out my age!
http://bfy.tw/5srr
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Hmmmm I mean in years dude. Why do I even want to know
Oh in years!!? Who on earth use years to measure age? What am I, wine?
http://lmgtfy.com/?q=1510+weeks+in+years
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No really. Age ?
That really is my age. Really.
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Being serious
Once in a while, yes.
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I really like how you answer your questions and how calm and sweet you sound. How old are you?
I am about 1510 Gregorian calendar weeks old.
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Why are you not answering my questions?
My problem is not with your questions. I do not mind answering them honestly. My problem is publishing them here publically. This would go to everybody who did NOT have that question in mind. Catch me on Telegram app on my India number and I do not mind answering anything. And if you want to stay anonymous, just use a throw away ID in Telegram and add me as desconfianza. Or on kik.
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If you would ask a girl out, what do u think she should be like? And if u would ask a guy out? What should he be like?
I haven’t really thought about it. I have to think. Gimme a sec.
I think the one I ask out, should be someone who have a twinkle in the eye when they laugh. I hope they have stories. I always found myself attracted to ones with stories. I am not going to say beauty is immaterial, I am drawn to beautiful people, but my ideals of beauty isn’t necessarily fair skin, symmetric faces and fit bodies. And I find it difficult to decide if somebody is beautiful if I don’t hear them talk or read what they have written.
And if this is the one who I think this is, you have the twinkle I am looking for.
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Desconfianza??
This is a very common question I am getting here. Here is my canned reply.
Desconfianza is Spanish for distrust. I find it a beautiful way of conveying the meaning. And found it perfect username for a forum where people who cannot trust me with their identity as me questions they otherwise wouldn't. But who am I to judge. Love all accept as many as you can. You need not agree with all nor trust all.
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What is the lamest comment you've got about your hair???
It has to be the one on 30th March 2013 from a stranger in Trivandrum.
Totally unsolicited advice from a very concerned stranger, "Did you try shaving your head? May be that will fix this. I know someone who had curly hair and after he shaved it came right."
Me, Have you tried staying at home? That really helps in staying out of other people's business.
No, I didn't say that even though I wanted to. I just pretended I don't know Malayalam. It worked. (Till he started saying the whole thing in Hindi) Duh!
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What is desconfianza?
Desconfianza is Spanish for distrust. I find it a beautiful way of conveying the meaning. And found it perfect username for a forum where people who cannot trust me with their identity as me questions they otherwise wouldn't. But who am I to judge. Love all accept as many as you can. You need not agree with all nor trust all.
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When did u first have $ex? Or r u still a virgin?
By $ex, do you mean if I have had $ex for money? I have never done that.
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what is zenuk ?
I have no idea. Am I supposed to know?