Nonhlanhla Siwela
ItsNonz
The love of Christ compels me ✨
In the mind of a young poet
Enrich me
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When will you?
I'm not sure, maybe this weekend.
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Have you posted a #sole pic on insta?
not yet x
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Whats your Instagram?
@nonhlanhla.siwela
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#Souls
it's soles baby, but thanksss
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Post a pic on insta with the #soles hashtag
will do x all the #soles supporters should comment, haha it will be super sweet
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#soles because that is his tickle zone?
pretty much
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ooooh bless his cotton socks it is sure cutest no doubt about that #soles
haha you're a gem, thank you x
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what is all this with soles Nonz? ?
Haha, it's such a sweet trend that i and other sweet humans have started. Basically it's to support this boy who is super insecure about him being ticklish. He genuinely thinks it makes him less of a man. And he came to me for advice. Like it's the cuuuutteestt thing. You should join our trend lol. #Soles
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Soles! Not sure why I’m saying that but I always try to help! ?
Haha, thanks boo x
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my grand parents were french but I dont take french
Oh okay, cool stuff. x
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natalie is a French name! and look all those peeps saying soles bless
I know, i actually take French as a subject at school. Is your family from France by any chance?
Hahha it's so sweet and hilarious.
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SOLES SOLES SOLES SOLES XXXX
haha ssoooleeessss xx
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werent me natalie asking dem qoohs about tickle shyness i just said its cute
ohh yeah i was actually confused , because Natalie is usually a girls name . By the way, its a really beautiful name! And i love the term ' tickle shyness' hahaha
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all the girls—— say SOLES
haha lol
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defo ❤️? and solessssss
haha ! soles . This made my day actually, was feeling awful because i caught the flu :(
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Yes much! Still nervous but better
I'm glad you're better. Forget about your soles, you have a beautiful soul! And thats all that matters.
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natalie
Aw Natalie, there are sooo many great things about you. And if you keep worrying over this tiny imperfection, it'll make you believe there's nothing else to you, when there really is.
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hey guy wid the v v tickleish soles its adorably cute about that i promise u tell the world ! not all girls hate feet and if ur soles are so sensitive shoe them off ❤️
I agrreeeee, thanks for this ! I hope this will help him feel a bit better about it.
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Kk thank you loads!
you're welcome sweets! Are you feeling better about it?
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o yer i knew that just forgot ??? i have such tickly soles specially right under my arches ?
Dont stress! I got yaa.
Really?? Haha aww you're super cute honestly. What's your name?
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How can you be so sure?
Think about it, there are billions of people living on earth, there has to be at least a million who suffer from the same 'condition' , its not something to be ashamed of. I think it's really cute! Pleaaasee don't stress about it.
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nonz wot exactly are a boys 'soles' ???
that sort of smooth part under his feet , it could be rough though depending on the person and how often they walk barefoot
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Omg your so right! Have you ever seen or heard of a boy who is this ticklish?
No i haven't , i'm so sorry. But i promise you there are loads.
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how did you fight depression?
I went on a social media fast. Did a lot of journaling. Transformed all my emotions and pain into poetry. And turned to God for healing. Thats the most important thing, i turned to God and not people.
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what happened between you and Khoza?
ask him rather, because it seems he has a lot to say
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but I think its different if your a boy coz I feel so unmanly being so extremely ticklish! I mean I can hardly even walk barefoot on grass! Silly huh?
I totally understand , i really do even though i'm a girl. But you know this whole thing about toxic masculinity , you need to reclaim what it means to be a man, you being ticklish doesn't decrease your 'manliness' . Its part of who you are. And you were fearfully and wonderfully made.
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Even the word "soles" tickles me to hear or read
That is hilarious ! But you can overcome it, it's almost like social conditioning. Try to train yourself to respond differently when being tickled or provoked in that regard.
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where and what do you want to study?
Probably one of the most difficult questions to answer, not because i don't know the answer, but because i do and i'm just so afraid it wont work out the way i wish it would. And it's not that i'm being negative or whatever it's just that when you want something so bad you just end up having all these thoughts in your head , you know? But .. i want to study in France or Canada , any French speaking country actually. If that doesn't work out, i want to study in Cape Town - probably UCT. And i want to study Medicine, but specialize into Psychiatry and also study literature because i want to become a part-time writer also.
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you're one of the nicest people i've ever met in my life bruh
you have no idea how much that means to me, thank you so much sweets
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any advice pls for a boy whose extremely extremely ticklish but like really embarrassed about it?
Haha! Thats honestly not something you should be embarrassed about sweets , there are actually so many people like you. Even i am one of them. Rather embrace it, and explain to people that you are before they tickle you to death lol.
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Worst thing thats happened to you recently?
defamation of character - i was falsely accused , rumors were spread about me that are obviously not true and i was not given the chance to even defend myself
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apparently youre a health freak?
Haha, sort of. I wouldn't use that term because it implies that i am someone who is so into their health and what they eat that i am a bit phsyco about it. Which is not the case. Lol. Theres just so much to it, so i'll try to be as concise as possible yet still informative. Basically, i consider myself an environmentalist , because i absolutely adore nature and i am so concerned about protecting it and preserving its beauty. Hence, loving nature to me is not enough, so i decided that i needed to do my part in conserving it also. So i am trying to change my lifestyle as a way of making a difference no matter how small. Im taking baby steps, it's really hard i must say and each time i feel as though i am not doing as much as i should be, but i am working towards it. and one of the biggest things i had to change was my diet because as most of us know, the food we buy contributes to animal cruelty and exploitation. The way cows are treated in the dairy industry alone is absolutely appalling and heartbreaking, and chickens as well. The chemicals and preservatives in our food are also so dangerous to our health and pesticides and other chemicals that are put into soils are so harmful to the environment. There's just so much going on in the food industry alone that is literally killing our earth, and i believe that consuming food that is not environmentally friendly is equivalent to physically harming our earth. That's why i try to eat food that is plant based or as healthy and environmentally friendly as possible. Its also to support my mom , because she recently had to change her diet due to health implications. So yeah, it just worked out in that way because the more aware i became, the more i was compelled to change my lifestyle.
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Who's Luyanda Mawesana?
Lol , a guy .
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Are you currently dating anyone or have a potential spouse?
married to my books maybe
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Are you currently dating anyone or have a potential spouse?
gods my first husband
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Are you currently dating anyone or have a potential spouse? purplehaize
Haha woah , no .
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Do you believe in love?
I believe in Gods love , but not societal love .
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Today I thought about killing you, premeditated murder
I think about killing myself, and I, I love myself way more than I love you
The most beautiful thoughts are always beside the darkest
Ye !! ❤️❤️❤️
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Your poetry gives me life
????❤️ this just gave me life
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who's your best mate ?
I have sisters ❤️
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do you listen to gqom?
Haha , i listen to Christian praise and contemporary dance sort of music. When gqom comes on I like it though. Makes a girl wanna dance even though she can't really dance gqom style. ??
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You're such an inspiration.
OH MY WORD - thank you ?❤️
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Youre so beautiful - catwoman x
☺️☺️❤️❤️ thank you
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HEY LOVE. I'M IN LOVE WITH YOUR POETRY AND IT REALLY DOES INSPIRE ME LIKE ALOT!!! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK.
THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️??❤️
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How do u knw when a girl likes u
Depends in what context , ask her perhaps , but if she is talking to you then I'd assume she likes you as a person?
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Who Do u like
A bit ambiguous , but I try to like all people regardless of their ethnic group or differences
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Are u single or in relationship
In a serious relationship with my Jesus ❤️
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What should people stop buying?
Polony
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youre so cool
not at all, and I don't aim to be accepted by society anyway
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Do you support the fact that the people asking you questions remain anonymous. If its a yes, why?
Yes and no . Yes , Because people feel more comfortable asking something knowing that their name won't be attached to it which helps to avoid any potential conflict or misunderstanding . But no , given the fact that people are comfortable also allows for people to take advantage of this , because they think that they can insult or bring down a person on their page without having to face the consequences since they will remain unknown , however they don't realize that anything that is posted on social media can still be accessed just because your name isint visable it doesn't eradicate your details and if needed specialists are able to find the source of the message or question that has been posted .
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Brag about yourself. What are you really good at doing?
?Even with the incentive to do so , i can't bring myself to brag about what I've been blessed with - it's not rightfully mine .
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Who would you want with you if you were stranded on a deserted island?
Could I say I'd want to be alone.
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What are you passionate about?
This is quite a difficult question to answer , I must say . Well, I'm passionate about I would say writing to make an impact on people , and to help them get through the struggles that we face in modern society - particularly teenagers ( stereotypes , expectations , temptations , peer pressure , suicide , depression ) basically I'm passionate about making a change in this world and having a voice. I haven't really found a cosnsensis or collaborated my thoughts into one confined overall passion , but I do have a rough idea. I'm still trying to find it really. My calling and what I'm here for. It's all very exciting but at the same time unnerving - what if I don't find my purpose or passion and I'm just stuck here living an aimless life.
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The Internet goes down, suddenly, and forever. What do you do?
Thank God
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Who is your crush? Dont be shy
?? ok - I'm not , nobody .
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Your dream Job?
Psychiatrist & part time writer ✨.
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You're so perfect
It's hard to find girls like you
Be mine?
I'm mine before I am anybody else's , thanks .
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Which song do you think you repeated the most ?
Prince of Peace , Pursue . (Between those two .
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Describe your life in 3 words
I don't think I can ?
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What is your current mood and why ?
I'm a whole wardrobe of moods
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What is your current state of mind?
peaceful & persistent
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If you were to die and come back as a person or thing, what do you think it would be?
As peaceful as a tree
As tolerant as a tree
As patient as a tree
As simple as a tree
As sturdy as a tree
A tree
A tree
A tree
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I really lyk u but i dnt kno how to tll you becoz you seem so feisty
I'm sorry you have that impression of me ?.
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Last song you played before replying to this ?
Prince of Peace - Hillsong
(How do they think of the words to their music , it's mind blowing and fills my heart with awe ?)
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How's Saints? :)
Incredible , life changing , amazing , vibrant , heart warming , perfect , phenomenal , exceptional , an opportunity for constant growth , St John's is a lot of things - all good things. I'm so blessed.
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Who are u crushing on at the moment
Nobody
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What is your favourite slang word ?
I don't like slang words , its an insult to our ancestors who produced and developed such a beautiful language .
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What have you noticed about yourself recently?
I'm more than different , I'm rare .
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Few people you can't live without?
I can live without people , but never without God .
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Why so low key ?
Anti-social by nature , I find myself in the solitude , I appreciate the solitude , I NEED the solitude .
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Who's been on your mind lately?
The deeper meaning of life , and the bigger picture . I've been doing a lot of thinking lately and a lot of writing - that's the only way in which I can express myself and transfer my congested thoughts into something beautiful and useful .
If you were a superhero, what would you call yourself?
Have no idea ❤️❤️
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What do you need to get off your chest?
Nothing at all , I've learnt to free myself from all things that make me feel heavy .
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If you discovered a new island, what would you name it and why?
Oh my word , good question . I want to discover an island ?✨ but the name ... I don't know . I'd scan my surroundings and name it anything I'lll always remember about it and what it meant to me.
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Who is your favorite person and why?
I don't have a favorite person , I don't believe in favoritism . Every person in my life has something incredible about them that they each possess .
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What's pissing you off right now ?
Nothing at all ?
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How much do you have in your bank account ?
Enough ?
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What's something that took you way too long to realize?
I'm actually capable of so much more and I've been depriving myself of unlocking my fullest potential because of doubts and insecurities , this life is the only time I have to live a potent life and I can't live it based on them people and society .
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What do you wish had never happened to you?
Everything that has happened has shaped me and I've learnt and grown through it , so I don't wish for any changes.
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How much money do you need right now and why ?
I don't need anything , I'm so grateful for what I have . But the money I need is the money I'd use to help those who are poverty stricken oh my word and little kids who don't have an education , women who are oppressed and disabled people who don't have enough funds to manage their conditions.
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What's Mpilenhle Ngcobo to you hmmm
Lol , nothing much x
Sorry , I'm assuming you were expecting something juicy but that's the best I can do.
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What's happening between you and Wenzile
Nothing , we best buds ?
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You are awesome ???
Thanks baby ?? You're spectacular ?.
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What is the one thing you do just to annoy other people?
I never deliberately annoy people tho ?♂️
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What are you afraid to admit you don't understand?
Mapwork ☹️
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i love you
I probably love you too
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What makes you genuinely happy?
God ?
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Last song you listened to ?
Forgot tbh