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Just.Ledi

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Would you marry young?

I will marry when I feel that I am financially and emotionally dependent on myself for simple fact that I would never take risk of being dependent on a man for basic needs let alone luxuries.
Despite my age, if I'm not independent in all aspects of my life then I wouldn't marry. Ya dig?

Just.Ledi replied 2368 days ago

Do you think they'll ever be equality among genders and race in the world ?

No. It's like asking if people will ever stop killing or stealing. You could put as many criminals in jail as you want but they'll always be someone killing or stealing the same way they'll always be misogynists and racists. It sounds pretty negative, I know.
But the silver lining is I believe that the percentage of these people would drop. Yes they'll always be there but in the future they won't be so many you know?
We will able to get jobs regardless of gender or color. Less cops will be killing and less men will be beating their wives.
Realistically, the world will never be a hundred percent cured of such people. Nevertheless, there's comfort in knowing that maybe not far from now we'll be a few percent closer anyway.

Just.Ledi replied 2368 days ago

Modelling tips? How to get into an agency for example

Stand out.
Best tip I can give you. If you want agencies to notice you then you can't look or act like the others. Give them something that makes you memorable.
And confidence is honestly going to get you far. Never look unsure of yourself, otherwise you remain bland and they begin to look elsewhere

Just.Ledi replied 2425 days ago

Any advice for anyone who just joined instagram?

Well, one thing I've always done is interacted with my followers. They are the people, after all, getting your instagram place to the place it needs to be. And you always wanna be active for the few months as your instagram is growing. The more content you post, the more recognizable you are. But make it quality content.
Idk I'm no expert but I hope these tips help..
Oh and if you're trying to build a brand then it might help to do research.

Just.Ledi replied 2425 days ago

Name the people you trust with your everything

My family
My btches
My imaginary husband
My dogs (not people but they always there for me so)

Just.Ledi replied 2425 days ago

You know you're damn pretty right ?

Thank you sooo muchhh

Just.Ledi replied 2425 days ago

Do you by any chance believe in the possibility of being reborn into a new loving form in your next life?

Yes! One of the beliefs that have stuck with me my whole life. I think we're all reborn into a better version of our old selves. Well depending on the life you led before really but yes, I strongly believe in this..

Just.Ledi replied 2425 days ago

How would you deal with a situation like this?: You love someone like a lot,you've been through alot together both on and off but this same person keeps hurting you emotionally,do you give the whole maybe you could call it a relationship another try or what?

I've been there.
And what I've learnt from it is that every extra chance I gave this person, I got easier and easier to give into their bullsht.
I started limiting my worth, lowering my standard because "it might work this time" was constantly in my head.
Look, I don't blame you for not giving up on him/her in fact I respect you for it because not everyone can be that strong. I don't believe in giving up on the ones you love because you clearly saw a side of them that not many people have seen...you know what they're like when they're vulnerable and you've grown attached. Attachment is never easy to get rid of so I get it.
But please be cautious, this relationship you're in isn't healthy. You have clearly put him/her and the relationship you have before your own needs many times and that's never going to make you happy.
Be selfish if need be. Think if this is what you really need and not just want. If this person being in your life has done you more good than bad.
If that's not the case then you might want to leave before you're torn down emotionally.
If you still believe, with every fibre of your being, that you still think you make this work then fight. Just don't forget about your self worth doing so.

Just.Ledi replied 2425 days ago

Can I tag you in my pictures?

ALWAYS.

Just.Ledi replied 2425 days ago

when was your last relationship? and why did it end?

It was last year and I can't really pin it on anything really. The situation just became complicated to be honest with you.

Just.Ledi replied 2425 days ago

You ever gonna reply your Dms?

Yes im so sorry if I didn't

Just.Ledi replied 2426 days ago

What makes you happy? -

So many little things.
So many little moments and thoughts.
It's a long list really but when I first read this, my friends popped up.
They're literally the only human beings who say "hi" with the same enthusiasm as me. They are literally the only people on this good green earth that make me forget what "sad" feels like. Their energy is so positive and beautiful you could have these people stand by your death bed, give you one quick smile or one dry A$$ joke and make you the happiest person on earth.
Moments with the mob are precious man. They're the sht that makes me happy

Just.Ledi replied 2426 days ago

how do you deal with a sudden change in your life? like it's so abrupt that you feel like everything has gone wrong and you've finally opened your eyes for the first time and everything you knew was a like

First thing you need to do is acknowledge the situation you're in and brace yourself for the pain. A lot of times in my life I would ignore tje situation, push it aside and tell myself it wasn't happening just so I wouldn't have to deal with all the feelings that came with it. There always came a time those feelings would pour out of me for days at a time. Suppressed feelings and thoughts taking over your mind like a hurricane. It fcking s*cks. Something that can be easily avoided if you accept what's happening to you when it's happening to you.
Another you need to remember is that change comes with adaptation.
You will always naturally adapt to.that change and make it your btch so try not to avoid doing so. You will eventually see that silver lining they're always talking about. That everything that went wrong will be right and you'd have forgotten,even if it is for a split second, that you were feeling this way.
You can never prepare yourself for such but teaching yourself not to be shaken by such is a great way of dealing with it. And I'm almost certain you'll get there

Just.Ledi replied 2426 days ago

Why don't you reply people on messenger?

I deleted my messenger, im sorry

Just.Ledi replied 2426 days ago

What's the one thing you regret doing in life?

I gave my whole self to someone once. Every fibre of soul and inch of me, I gave to someone to keep.
That's the one thing I regret in life.
I made this person the air I breathe. Their voice was my daily bread and they made me feel like I'd be happy for a lifetime with nothing but they're prescence.
And now they're barely present and you can imagine how dark it got and how weak I started to feel.
I was really happy with them in my life to be totally honest with you. I just made the mistake of convincing myself they completed me. I hadn't realised I was already complete and now that they aren't here anymore I really am barely.
They were not the regret.
Giving up my soul and entire peace of mind to them was.

Just.Ledi replied 2426 days ago
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