Just.Ledi
It's your girl Ledi ready to answer just about anything. Im honest and I.cuss a lot Apologies in advance
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I will marry when I feel that I am financially and emotionally dependent on myself for simple fact that I would never take risk of being dependent on a man for basic needs let alone luxuries.
Despite my age, if I'm not independent in all aspects of my life then I wouldn't marry. Ya dig?
No. It's like asking if people will ever stop killing or stealing. You could put as many criminals in jail as you want but they'll always be someone killing or stealing the same way they'll always be misogynists and racists. It sounds pretty negative, I know.
But the silver lining is I believe that the percentage of these people would drop. Yes they'll always be there but in the future they won't be so many you know?
We will able to get jobs regardless of gender or color. Less cops will be killing and less men will be beating their wives.
Realistically, the world will never be a hundred percent cured of such people. Nevertheless, there's comfort in knowing that maybe not far from now we'll be a few percent closer anyway.
Stand out.
Best tip I can give you. If you want agencies to notice you then you can't look or act like the others. Give them something that makes you memorable.
And confidence is honestly going to get you far. Never look unsure of yourself, otherwise you remain bland and they begin to look elsewhere
Well, one thing I've always done is interacted with my followers. They are the people, after all, getting your instagram place to the place it needs to be. And you always wanna be active for the few months as your instagram is growing. The more content you post, the more recognizable you are. But make it quality content.
Idk I'm no expert but I hope these tips help..
Oh and if you're trying to build a brand then it might help to do research.
My family
My btches
My imaginary husband
My dogs (not people but they always there for me so)
Thank you sooo muchhh
Yes! One of the beliefs that have stuck with me my whole life. I think we're all reborn into a better version of our old selves. Well depending on the life you led before really but yes, I strongly believe in this..
I've been there.
And what I've learnt from it is that every extra chance I gave this person, I got easier and easier to give into their bullsht.
I started limiting my worth, lowering my standard because "it might work this time" was constantly in my head.
Look, I don't blame you for not giving up on him/her in fact I respect you for it because not everyone can be that strong. I don't believe in giving up on the ones you love because you clearly saw a side of them that not many people have seen...you know what they're like when they're vulnerable and you've grown attached. Attachment is never easy to get rid of so I get it.
But please be cautious, this relationship you're in isn't healthy. You have clearly put him/her and the relationship you have before your own needs many times and that's never going to make you happy.
Be selfish if need be. Think if this is what you really need and not just want. If this person being in your life has done you more good than bad.
If that's not the case then you might want to leave before you're torn down emotionally.
If you still believe, with every fibre of your being, that you still think you make this work then fight. Just don't forget about your self worth doing so.
ALWAYS.
It was last year and I can't really pin it on anything really. The situation just became complicated to be honest with you.
Yes im so sorry if I didn't
So many little things.
So many little moments and thoughts.
It's a long list really but when I first read this, my friends popped up.
They're literally the only human beings who say "hi" with the same enthusiasm as me. They are literally the only people on this good green earth that make me forget what "sad" feels like. Their energy is so positive and beautiful you could have these people stand by your death bed, give you one quick smile or one dry A$$ joke and make you the happiest person on earth.
Moments with the mob are precious man. They're the sht that makes me happy
First thing you need to do is acknowledge the situation you're in and brace yourself for the pain. A lot of times in my life I would ignore tje situation, push it aside and tell myself it wasn't happening just so I wouldn't have to deal with all the feelings that came with it. There always came a time those feelings would pour out of me for days at a time. Suppressed feelings and thoughts taking over your mind like a hurricane. It fcking s*cks. Something that can be easily avoided if you accept what's happening to you when it's happening to you.
Another you need to remember is that change comes with adaptation.
You will always naturally adapt to.that change and make it your btch so try not to avoid doing so. You will eventually see that silver lining they're always talking about. That everything that went wrong will be right and you'd have forgotten,even if it is for a split second, that you were feeling this way.
You can never prepare yourself for such but teaching yourself not to be shaken by such is a great way of dealing with it. And I'm almost certain you'll get there
I deleted my messenger, im sorry
I gave my whole self to someone once. Every fibre of soul and inch of me, I gave to someone to keep.
That's the one thing I regret in life.
I made this person the air I breathe. Their voice was my daily bread and they made me feel like I'd be happy for a lifetime with nothing but they're prescence.
And now they're barely present and you can imagine how dark it got and how weak I started to feel.
I was really happy with them in my life to be totally honest with you. I just made the mistake of convincing myself they completed me. I hadn't realised I was already complete and now that they aren't here anymore I really am barely.
They were not the regret.
Giving up my soul and entire peace of mind to them was.
My personality.
Believe it or not, it has nothing to do with my looks. I just constantly feel annoying, boring or dumb. I've developed some major anxiety cause of it and although I hate to admit it...I do care about what people think of me. I'm always trying to be perfect and I've crumbled multiple times cause of it.
I am working on it yes and I just want to say for any female who feels like they aren't as perfect on the inside as they are on the outside, let me be the first to say: you're not alone. You don't have to hide behind pretentious confidence if that's not how you really feel. Trust me as a person who has and is going through it, it doesn't help. You'll find yourself, I know it's a cheesy thing to say but even the most cheesiest phrases have truth in them and believe me when I pour you with this cheese YOU WILL FIND YOURSELF. So will I.
It honestly all depends on how that girl makes me feel.
If I feel like "damn" I would really love it if this human being were my girlfriend then yeah.
Don't get me wrong I'm not gay, but if she's that amazing...I'll gladly be gay for a btch
Career wise. I'm not sure. I chose the wrong career early in my high school life because of all the pressure of being sure what I wanted to after I graduate. Now I'm stuck a year before I graduate not knowing want I want to do and until it comes to me naturally I won't know what I want to do. Which is okay, last thing I want to do is wake up and hate my job twenty years from now. No one should be forced into making such decisions, it definitely helps to think about them but never make them out of pressure you feel?
But in ten years I'll be twenty five, owning a children's hospital specializing around cardiology neurology as well as a art prodigy museum putting up pieces of the finest artwork from children in elementary and high school. All visual arts from paintings and sculptures to photography and dance videos giving them the opportunity to strive early in careers that may not necessarily be in demand right now forcing them to think about careers they may not want just for them to get by. I'm really trying to give them the opportunities we don't have now.
That's what I got so far lmao
A lot of people tbh.
A lot of my old friends too. I'm cool with some them and actually miss a few but most of them are just memories. And in total honesty, I prefer it that way....
Possibilities are high tbh
Hmu first boo
. _ . I don't really have any beef w Pamella. I just don't like the way she did people dirty. She did one of my friends dirty and it's like "girl don't you get tired, damn"
I really would fck w her but I just never found it in my heart to trust her. Can't fck w someone that's gonna have you looking over they're shoulder 24/7
Alwaaaaayysss
Hmu!!!!
Still very much a virgin Thanks for asking???
Wdym.
Nothing. We were friends then and we are now.
We just don't talk as much is all...
It's not really about the age in my opinion. It's about the generation. I wouldn't advise children in our generation to date because they misconcept every thing that has to do with holding another person's heart in their hands. We aren't ready, none of us, for that kind of responsibility. We need to be taught how to love like our parents loved. We need to be taught how to care and treat our partners they way our parents treat each other. I wouldn't advise people my age, in my generation to date until we're taught or until we know what love is. As of right now, we don't know what love is at all....
fckING AWESOME MATE
If at any time acting like 100% of yourself weirds your partner out or make him/her feel uncomfortable or disgusted in any way then he/she probably doesn't love you for who you are
I have had four REAL relationships so far and what I have learnt?
1. I need to learn how to stop taking bullsht, I'm too submissive and they feel the need to use that to control me
2. I'm bomb
3. Love yourself before you get into a relationship. I don't recommend depending on someone to love you
enough for the both of you because when or if he/she leaves, you're back in the same corner loathing yourself because the person that loved you enough for you to start loving yourself is gone.
4. Be honest 100% of the time even if you're afraid it might hurt them. It would definitely hurt them more finding out from an outside source when you had all the chance to tell them.
5. Both of you are gonna mess up, you're gonna do some dumb sht, he/she is gonna do some dumb sht. It's gonna happen and only you can decide whether what either of you did is worth trying to put in the past
6. Keep people out yo business
7. Look at #6
No. I'm sorry to say this but I can't be kind to someone who isn't to me. I believe that you may receive the same treatment I receive from you. I would never wish anyone bad but I wouldn't tolerate their btchyness
A lot of people actually. I have no specific fashion style I stick to I just get inspired by aesthetic, colourful, grunge but girly fashion looks
One of my top inspirations has to be
@guvmanian on instagram as well as solange and willow smith
I honestly just sit and think about what people would like to see me in or see me doing. Being in front of a camera is such a fun hobby for me so I just put my best in it all ready....im never afraid to be extra for the gram lol
I engage with my followers alot. I let them know I appreciate them. I try my best to give quality content but I think what my followers appreciate the most is my genuineness with them. No one likes a fake btch.
And yes I do give shoutouts, if you want one drop your handle babe.
Well, I had to get noticed. I had to make them recognize that I was worthy of being chosen. Key factor: always stand out, you don't get recognized but being a simple Jane Doe. You gotta be a fcking Marilyn Monroe.
I personally don't believe in ugly people. I'll call you beautiful everyday even if you never believe that you are simply because I see beauty in everything and everyone
The only ugly thing about you is yiur lack of self confidence. You may not feel it but as long one person sees the beauty then that's all that counts and as you can see, I see the beauty.
Whoever you are, don't take this the wrong way but I think you're beautiful....and you always were and always will be.
Let me tell you a story.
I spent my whole primary school life, and form one fighting a self loathing battle in my head. I hated everything about myself from the way I looked to the way I acted around. My insecurities made me be sorry for being myself and all that was honestly so unhealthy.
I wanted to love myself.
I wanted to know what it felt like not to depend onbthe way other people felt about me.
I realized loving myself wasn't something that came naturally like it did for some people. I had to practice my self love.
I looked in the mirror and lied to myself "you're so cute"
I didn't believe it but I told myself I wouldn't think any other thing about myself other than that line "you're so cute"
I told myself I was good looking for so long I started to believe it. I told myself I was a pretty fun person till I started to believe it and the more I looked into that mirror and convinced myself I was worth something. I saw my the pricelessness in me.
How do you love yourself? Convince yourself enough to fall in love with the person in the mirror. And even though it's never easy, even though you'll have doubts just remember "you're so cute"
You're priceless.
The only person who can manage to love you right is you.
I won't ask you to be more out there or talk more. Because frankly, you don't have to.
But I will ask you to do is realize that you're getting all the attention you need already....from people that matter.
Don't continue to feel like a nobody because the whole world isn't looking at you, start feeling like a somebody because even if it's just a handful of people, you're still getting looked at regardless. You're noticed. You're appreciated. That kind of attention is all you need, and it's something you ought to be greatful for
The people that say hi everyday
The person that talks to you in class
The guy that randomly hits you up
The people that say sorry when they bump into you
Your parents
Your friends
Yourself
Those are the only people worth receiving attention from. So you don't have to do anything to get more attention. No, just sit and open your eyes to all the people giving you all the attention you need already
There are two Melissa's in my school that I know of but im gonna go ahead and guess you're talking about Melissa Tebogo.
Kind girl. Hella shy but in a cute way. Nice thighssssss. We don't talk much so I can't go any further than this but she cute you know? She fun too. I wouldn't mind landing a party w her. That's as far as I know tbh
fck yeah he is...have you seen that nigga smile? Wuu!
No disrespect to his girl...
Oversized brownish orange tshirt
Crowds.
Munesu. This girl will tell you straight up that she don't like you. Her honesty is A1 man
Tbh. Idk what it was, we weren't dating, but we were together and....in love. Lol. And I loved it, every second. I wish I could tell you his name but unfortunately that part has to remain confidential.
Ask all "Legae minors"They'll tell you and best believe they all have the same answer
My sister.
That btch is my life
Lmao. And his "relationships". From what I know, all his relationships lasted two seconds. Can you really call them relationships? Just asking.
Another lmao. Kante these girls, what went down elegore. They're still kids, allow them to grow lol
Her eyes. She has this heavenly set of ling ling eyes that just.....give you .......heart palpitations. Wuuu!
9th of May
Year I was born shall continue to remain confidential lol
My A$$ is this size naturally so everytime it gets bigger or smaller it's not intended, it just happens.
HOWEVER, I highly recommend using target exercise to grow a bigger b*m. Squats with dumbbells and weights and so on could give you incredible results in a week or two. Also, higher protein on your plate and larger portions can make that b**ty pop
Totally. If they make each other happy then who am I to btch about you know? They should not their relationships w me hinder them from being together
But it would really s*ck if it were an ex im not over yet. You know? But regardless, im okay w it. Like GO BE HAPPY TOGETHER BO BABYYY
Lmao, is this even a question? Have you seen the fire that is TC? You play too much man lol
Anywhere really.....it just depends on where the vibe is ya feel?
I am so sorry. Man im terrible at this texting sht I swear I've tried. I'll reply nowwww. So sorry man fck im sorry
You're most welcome. Hope it helps. x
Friends?
Loyal bad btches that finna be honest w me, grow w me and have a good fcking time w me. And be happy for me when you see me winning. Don't wish for.my downfall and then try and comfort me. fck outta here with your fake A$$.
Relationships?
Basically the same thing as friends because this guy gotta feel like my best friend before my partner ya feel?
. _ . I can't reveal all my secrets omww
I FEEL YOU BOO.
Had the same problems w a big squad last year, man there was so much negativity passed around them and all them hisses they threw at each other exhausted the fck out of me.
So I know how you feel man.
Here's my advice to you? Keeping a small amount of friends won't guarantee that you won't be snaked im afraid. It's a harsh world out there so don't be quick to thinking that a small circle fixes these kinds of problems because while it does improve them its never a 100%. However, look at the people in your life who haven't backstabbed you yet. That 2% percent of loyal niggas in your life are the people you should keep around. Because if they haven't done it up to now then it's safe to trust that they probably won't do it ever. Ya feel? If you ever feel like opening up or ranting or just screaming your fcking lungs out then that 2% are the people you should do it to because they finna listen better. This could help you avoid opening up to people too quickly and building relationships first rather than being open with people you don't even know yet, ya feel?
Trust has to be built sweety. That sht is precious. You don't just give it away.
As for staying on the low? Keep to yourself. Biggest issue we have w today's society is everybody knows everybody's business so nobody feel at ease. Don't take your problems to social media, 80% of them dont care another five percent of them laughing at you in their app groups. Keep to ya self and your day ones.
But I'd like to say you're pretty strong. I can imagine how hard it is for someone w a good heart to.be constantly fcked over, that sht must hurt and im sorry. But keep moving boo, let them see you glowww, let them winnnn
Man if I had a dollar for everytime I got asked this question. Lol.
You know what. At this.point in my life, I probably wouldn't. It was a toxic relationship man. We couldn't keep each other happy and we both had so much growing to do. That kind of emotional exhaustion was dangerous for me and right now, I wouldn't want to go.back there...
But fck it, we never know. We might meet in a coffee shop a few years from on and hook up or some sht cause you never know what could go down but if we speaking in present tense about the situation then no, im sorry but I really wouldn't.
Thanks man. Honestly feel like since I brought you guys here to ask me questions and sht that I can't just start lying. Gotta hit you guys w the truth and let you know how I truly feel hopefully without offending anyone of course
Fam it's like three am and these damn mosquitoes feasting on my legs so I ain't right now ya feel?
But generally in life, im surviving. Ain't gonna say im completely happy and sht cause then I'd be lying to you but nonetheless your girl surviving, she still here. That's what counts right?
I hope I don't offend you when I say this but you need to take a seat and stfu
Paul is a great guy and I tell him all the time that his personality isn't for everyone and that's what makes him so special. He's an aquired taste like sushi and caviar. Not everyone may like him but I fcks w him heavy.
Don't ever ask me a dumbass question like that again
Laone Gabarongwe and male bestfriend is Kabelo (I have no idea how to spell his surname lol)
Aww thank you. To be honest I hate rude people. Especially If its first impressions. I can be rude at times, true but never to people who don't deserve it.
So I try my best to be nice to everyone but I'd hate to become something I loathe. A rude for nothing btch
I love how you put accidentally in qoutes like you know that sht happened on pupose LMAO.
Honestly....I've been hearing stories about Gontlafetse since form one man. Heard about her so much I got used to it. Had to act surprised when they told me the story but inside I was like "espeded it". Might get hated for saying this but Gontlafetse girl, close your damn legs.
I didn't know Neo took nudes lol. Honestly seems to innocent to be doing such but its her decision right?
Can I add something extra? If you wanna take nudes for your man you do you girl I aint judging oranything..but you gotta be smart about it. Can't be sending your naked A$$ to the whole facebook community and expect nothing to happen...you gotta think first. Stop being some dumb.
Man. I'll be honest w you. We aren't as close as before but what we have, me and Amantle. Is some strong as connection. She's always been in my life I guess what we just lost sight of each other for a little bit but when she hit me up and told me she missed me we could see again. Been bad btches since day one...never changing
The problem with humanity is nothing is ever enough for us. We always want more and can't work with what we have, we can't be satisfied with the little things we have because the guy right next to you has something bigger or better looking. What you have is never enough and as soon as you get what you want, you suddenly want more.
The problem with humanity today is tearing each other down is our way of feeling better about our selves. We want to bully that girl about her hair or judge that person on their career choice not realizing that it doesn't benefit us in any way. You won't get that car, that job, that money. All you be getting is a bitter A$$ taste in your mouth from being so salty all the time.
And another s*ckish thing about humanity is we use religion as justification as to why we should hate people. Christians especially. We hide behind our bibles telling other God doesn't accept Gays, lesbians, transgenders, people with tattoos, people with piercings, black and indian people, working and educated ladies, abortions....etc
We simply can't accept some people and when you ask them why they start to act holier than though and tell you its not what God wants. We fail to ask ourselves if God wanted you to kill him because he was gay, did God want you to perform an exorcism on a girl with tattoos because you thought she was demonic, Did God want you to kick out your son because he wasn't happy being a boy...no, he probably didn't. Its okay not to like the way people are, everyone has entitled opinion but don't use our God as an excuse for that because the hate you show towards these people is all on you.
I got carried away...sorry. I actually have more but it's never okay to focus too much on the negative
But humanity is not always shtty. We're slowly but surely finding better ways to improve life, to improve living. There are people out there not so narcissistic that help those who.need it and people out there fight for those who need it. You know, stuff like that
By the way, only 45% of the world's population show some sort of reasonable affection to the earth. The rest? A$$holes.
Thanks for the question and sorry its so damn long
Honestly.....this far in my life I can my greatest accomplishment has to be surviving. Been through so much my whole life, dealt with so much my whole life and here I am man still bubbly and friendly and sht. Not everyone gets the chance to say that typa sht and it makes me proud of myself. The pain never changed me man. And that's a huge accomplishment in my book
Stupido. I love that
Just chilling moe. Wassup with you?
Always open to a new friend. Especially a bomb A$$ hypeman such as yourself. Hmu baby girl. I'll be sure to tag you moghel. x
Thank you so much my love
Ugh. Blushing like an idiot right now.
Some of my clothes are custom made
Some are bought locally and some in South Africa. But try the app alieexpress for bomb A$$ clothes.
Style icons have to be (their instagram handles)
@guvmanian
@gorillagirl
@salemitchell
@me_n_mi_brows
@asslay
@slickwoods
@oddfreckles
And most importantly myself cause I believe I have a very bad btch style
Always open to a new friend. Especially a bomb A$$ hypeman such as yourself. Hmu baby girl. I'll be sure to tag you moghel. x
A canon camera. Im not completely sure what type it is but I know Canon's got the best camerass
Wait.....You actually get things for Christmas??
Nah. Occasionally get out of the house cause ewww socializing
Wait.....You actually get things for Christmas??
If it ain't nike its nothing yo. That tick is life.
But locally? I'll have to say Glotto...shout out to doing a yeezy and maki torn clothes look amazing
Both actually
Once.....both at the same time *gasp*
Does my mom count . - .
Lol. Im joking
Not serious kisses. Like little pecks on the lips or on the cheeks cause I got mad love for my girls ya dig? Buut I've never had my tongue down another btch's throat lol.
TO BE HONEST
I was a horrible over the phone. I could leave you on read for a week and tell you I was taking a bath or some sht like that but im getting better yo. I reply earlier nowadays so don't give up on me just yet.
However if I don't find your message "repliable" im not going to reply. Gotta keep things interesting ya dig?
Why did my mind just suddenly become so dirty when I read that? lol
Before I can give you a an answer I would like you to make the question more......clear. I need to know if you'd like to know about my turn ons and offs in guys, girls, general actions by people around me etc.
So re ask this if you don't mind but elaborate it for your girl
I don't hate Bots teens my friend. But the teens in the teens in the cap city? They can all fall in a hole.
I personally wouldn't use the word hate. Its too strong. Let's just I don't fck with most of them mainly because you gotta put on snake repellent before so much as breathing the same air as them.
Man, if I had a choice, I'd be in Maun or some sht like that....Gaborone and its "felebs" can miss me
Okay, this is a pretty long list of things you're asking me to type down so imma just name the top five for you
1.homophobes, anyone that has some sort of issue w gay people can fck out of my life
2. Spiders. The devil's pet. Have you seen the way those things move???!!!!
3. Mushrooms. Im not even going dwell.on that or I might just vomit
4. Rude people. Especially when I meet you for the first time. Then you have the nerve to be rude....like, btch. No. I'll fck you up
5. 80% of the teenagers in Gaborone. I don't even need to explain why
Legae Academy in Phase 2, Gaborone
Look at you making me blush and all.
Yes actually I do have an artistic side to me and I would like to take it further than instagram but its definitely a starting point. That being why im soon to join tumblr and other social medias.
Hmu, you seem interesting
As I attempt to make my life sound interesting....
I climbed my first plane at the age of three when me and my family went to Namibia. A trip I don't remember but the pictures say "hey Naledi, you were a pretty cool kid"
Most def.
Have you seen these lips yo??
The do the damn thing
Depends on what cool means to you. If you're thinking "mean girls, I gossip about everyone and all the boys want me" type of cool then imma have to drop your scale to a negative 5 bro.
But if you're thinking hood, hypequeen, boujee type of cool then im coolest btch on the block. Everybody tryna fck w me. Not to be egotistical or anything but 9.5 straight up.
DIS btch
Best thing that ever happened to me after my puppy. She's such a hypeman omw and her weirdness just totally compliments mine. And her boy problems omwww. We actually became close over boy problems.lol.
She's just so funny and just my pillar of support I love her so much. This is so soppy eww
Everybody from my internal family and my mom's side of the family
And my nine closest friends....well,only friends. Even though Im just terrible at replying
Besides trying on clothes? My art and my writing are my best friends. Cause my imagination is my tool and my inspiration to create the paintings or the fictional stories I work on a day to day basis. And I just love these things that help me escape the outside world