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If you were the last human on Earth, what would you still do every day?
Read <3 Until I ran out of interesting books in Sarnia... Then I would have to drive to a new city to read more books :3
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What do you spend your money on the most ?
My two true loves...food and yarn :P
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What is the biggest frustration you’re facing now?
Finding fulltime employment in no-job Sarnia -.-
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What does your perfect day look like?
It doesn't look like anything, it feels like home. My perfect day feels like home, acceptance and love. My perfect day feels like I am not alone, it feels like strength and confidence. Maybe it feels like uncomplicated love, strong arms wrapped around my shoulders, the softness of a person I love that loves me in the same way, or like a candlelight shower in a locked bathroom with the fan off and Celtic music playing all loudly. Basically my perfect day exists in small moments, sometimes multiple times a day but they never last a whole 24 hours.
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Who do you miss?
Honestly? I miss Keeto...
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Your biggest wish ?
For someone to cuddle, spend time with and talk to.
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best *exual experience?
Honestly? I'm not a huge fan of *ex. In fact I find it to be an incredibly awkward and uncomfortable experience for the most part.
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What do you dislike the most right now?
How certain people seem to get off on getting my hopes up for something then ripping that very thing away in the most painful way humanly possible (the person in mind did it first with a relationship, then with making that relationship work then with a friendship). Like do you have an addiction to breakups *****?
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How do you want to end 2014 ?
With someone super sweet and loveable. No midnight kiss required of course. But noooooooo I get to babysit again this year...
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when you aren't feeling good and really need to talk to someone, who do you call?
No one. I internalize or journal... But I am far from the healthiest person in that sense... Don't do as I do, actually call someone dear.
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Favourite poem?
I thinnk it would have to be one by Sapphos... "There's a moment when I look at you| And no speech is left in me,| My tongue breaks,| Thin fire runs under my skin| And I tremble and grow paler than the reed| For I am dying of such love, Or so it seems to me." I want to love someone like this again someday, and I'd really like to be loved like this in return.
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At what age do you want to get married ?
At this point I don't even want to get married anymore. People are just too much work, I'll be the best damn crazy rat lesbian this world has ever seen though :)
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What is your ringtone?
The sound of a rubber ducky being squeaked repeatedly.
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The most unreliable person you know ?
Me, myself and I!
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To the ladies: your type of guy?
My type of guy has t*** and a v*****... and is a woman....
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Biggest regret?
Not using my time as efficiently as possible in order to maximize my productivity and satisfaction with life. I'm working on it though :3
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favorite response to the question "guess what?1!
Thanks to Becca I automatically say "Chicken butt" definitely my favourite :P
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Have you ever gone to school without taking a bath?
I usually shower before school... I reserve baths (both bubble and otherwise) for after long days or for the first day of the Walrus' Song.
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in your own words, describe your room?
Who else's words would I use!? My room is small, crowded and messy. More often than not my dirty clothes end up on the floor and the clean ones never make it to the end of the Laundry Day journey, instead they come to rest in a laundry basket that is just kicked out of the way if it is ever underfoot. I have a plethora of knickknacks (dragons, wizards, small metal animals, jewelry boxes, candles, my beach collection and any number of other things either cute or intriguing to me). My closet is full of my wardrobe from dresses and skirts to baggy jeans and plaid all arranged by length. Under my clothes lives a giant box full of shoes... Mostly summer shoes (flats, sandals and the like). My desk is crammed in a too-small corner, covered in papers both important and outdated and in one corner of the hutch rests a huge, very well used and very ratty Dictionary that very recently went out of date... I should replace it but I can't bring myself to toss out this old friend. There are books on the ground, on shelves and under the bed, most used among them being my dictionaries and thesaurus. I've got piles of letters, empty or half used journals and blank paper, pens upon pens upon pens hiding in the most peculiar places and lists of words I find lovely or entertaining stuck in books as makeshift bookmarks. My room is a mixture of the cutesy and the bleak, (stuffies vs dragons, soft vs metal, flowers vs squishy, eyeball-like stress ball) and I feel it describes me fairly well.. Wonderful Chaos.. My room is my base-of-operations, my room is home, my room is MINE and full of my mess. I guess you could say my room is a safe haven, my den so-to-speak.
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Serious question: Describe the characteristics of your toes? Have you named them? Do they ever give you trouble or are you all best friends?
Uhm my toes are very toesy.. They have knuckles (like all toes do) and little blond hairs that sometimes get caught in panthose (Owie) and the nails always grow crooked. The littlest toe on both feet are turned in a little (okay a lot) and seem to try to hide under their neighbor (I think they are shy). My toes always give me trouble, they are ten little companioins that happen to be stuck to a very stinky set of feet.... OF COURSE they will cause trouble! I haven't named them.. Though I probably should.. Its the least I can do for making them put up with my smelly shoes every day right?
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If you had to ask God a question what would it be?
That depends on what god I'm talking to....
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favorite doctor who moment?
Is all of them an appropriate answer?
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feelings on Pokemon?
Honestly? I feel like I would love it a crazy amount if I were able to play the games. Gotta get me a gameboy and some versions of the game...
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feelings on walrus in tuxedos?
Walruses will be forever ruined for me simply because a friend and I started using "the walrus sings at midnight" as code for "the red river Nile is gushing out of my womb please give me chocolate and f.u.c.k off"
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what would your FEELS be if the 9th doctor and Donna had an adventure together?
I would go beyond not being able to even... I would probably be some sort of oozy, gelatinous mass of tears, feels and laughter at the ridiculous amounts of sass and joy that such an adventure would bring to me. As a result of being both oozy and gelatinous I would likely hide under my bed until I'd watched the episode(s) so many times I had them memorized... Also, social life would dwindle even further than it already has
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Daleks? Kns142
Noooo way in hell man! Even Daleks understand and revere the beauy of a well crafted squirrel-stache
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Hey!! Wouldn't the Dalek want to Exterminate the squirrel-stache? :P Kns142
Who REALLY wants to exterminate a squirrel-stache?
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if you had to choose between a white shirt with red stripes or a red shirt with white stripes, which would you choose?
Is close my eyes and choose the first one I touch. They are both the same anyways.
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Do you think a squirrel-stache would look good on a Dalek?
A squirrel-stache would look good on just about everything!
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well here something no lesbian related!! ello twisted sister <3
SISTAH!!! Heeeeey! We must need hangout vury soon!!!
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is she considered not a lesbian any more if she experiments with guys?
Labels are chosen by the person they are applied to, if she considers herself a lesbian then she is a ****ing lesbian. Why do people find that so difficult to understand? We are who we want to be no more and no less.
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is it frowned on for a lesbian to experiment with guys?
Depends on the people and why in the hell you give a ****.
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What would you do if you loved a girl, a lot, but you weren't physically attracted to her?
Consider having a purely romantic relationship? I mean, I don't think *ex is mandatory, just make sure to discuss it first...
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what if I'm straight but I'm questioning? Would it be leading someone on if I tried it with them?
No one wants to be the experimental "phase" of a friend's life.
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so if a lesbian sent me a text that if received from a guy would mean "I want you" should I take it the same way?
Possibly. It's best to ask if that's the intent though
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any dating advice?
Really? You're asking me? I s*ck at dating o.O I'm timid and scared of annoying my date or seeming put-offish, or seeming desperate. Really I give good advice but I s*ck at following it.
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Is that it? Just tell him its not fair? I feel like that would just start a fight not a conversation :$ Can you expand a little?
Not much expanding to do. LIke I said it would be a VERY difficult conversation but it needs to be had if this is a thing that is going on.
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I'm in a relationship that has been going really well but recently he has started blaming every little thing that could go wrong on me, what do i do?
I'd talk to him. Tell him it's not fair that he blame everything on you and see where it goes. It'll be a difficult conversation but it needs to happen
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favorite time of day?
That kinda varies depending on my sleep schedule.
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Current mood?
Is bored a mood? I think it should be
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how are things with your girlfriend going? Is long distance still working for you?
Things are going lovely, long distance is okay in the sense that I don't have to get up before 2 pm and even then I don't have to put on clothes... But I am very excited for when she moves back anyways. I'll put up with clothes if I get to see her :3
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What time do you sleep?
When I get tired
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What things make you happiest in life?
Learning, stepping back and admiring a job well done (like a crochet project that's finally completed), finishing a good book, spending time with my little cousins (Emma, Sarah, Joey, Shaina and Abi for example), seeing my little brother using a skill I taught him, seeing my mommah happy, knowing my friends trust me enough to talk about their problems, finding the courage to practice my right to religious freedom, finding beauty in nature and in man-made structures, seeing that the beauty in man-made things often mirrors, enhances our is enhanced by nature... There's lots. I am made happy by being happy in general.
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What turns you off in a person ?
Lack of conversation. I mean it doesn't have to be deep or anything but I enjoy chatting with people
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you are lucky you had the courage to do that, there are some people out there who feel like they can't for one reason or another.. or maybe feel like they can't do any better in life so they stay in those situations...
You can ALWAYS do better than an abusive relationship.
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how long did it take you to realize you were in a toxic place and manage to get the strength to say enough is enough, was it really difficult to do?
Just about three gods damned years.... And yes it was hard but after a lot of meditation on the whole thing I came to enjoy being out and free again :) So in short it was hard but very worth it.
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how did you get out of that situation?
Honestly? I hit the end if my route and the whole thing just exploded. Much messy, very no.
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have you ever been in an abusive relationship, mental or physical?
Yup
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I mean not hold their views against them, like what if a part of their past seems terrible 2 u but they see nothing wrong with it.. I guess 2put it in a way u can relate too; someone is against ur cexuality, u feel it's not terrible but they see it as such
Its not like me to hold other people's views against them at all.
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Do you think you would be a fair "councillor" if a friend just wanted to tell you their whole life story, even the terrible parts, because they were just tired of hiding the truth for so long, and had no one else to confide in?
I don't know what you would call fair but I'd keep the secrets and I'd never look at you any differently for your past.
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Why do you think you talk about it so much?
Its fresh in my mind I guess.
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You talk about it a lot?
I think I do yes.
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what does your girlfriend think of the whole situation with your ex?
Frankly I think she's sick of me talking about it.
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Can money buy love?
That depends. Are we talking romantic love or affection love? It cannot buy romantic love but money can buy a puppy and that is a hell of a lot of affection love...
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What if you don't morally have a choice due to being a caring and empathetic person, and you wish you could get out of the situation but either way you are trapped between two impossible choices so you remain stuck in the "unhealthy" place? :(
Sometimes morality needs to be sacrificed for health (mental or physical)
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have you ever gone farther than second base with a male?
Yep. No gold star lesbian here
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I know it's none of my business, but curiousoty gets the better of me sometimes. May I ask who this person was and/or who the other two relationships were with?
You're right its not really your business. I may not mind vaguely giving somewhat details but I won't hand out names to slander people in the public's view. Whoever knows knows and whoever doesn't really doesn't need to know. No offense meant of course. :)
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You said dont do the rash thing, speaking from experience (about cheating) may I ask what happened to you?
Its a long complicated story that boils down to I reacted harshly to finding out my girl of 3 years cheated on multiple occasions and was maintaining 2 other relationships aside from our own. She gained a broken rib and I lost a decent friend out of the whole thing. So I repeat! Do as I say... Not as I do.
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have u ever been made 2feel like sht abt urself ovr&ovr&ovr & every time u try 2do something 4 urself 2 feel better abt life, u'r made 2feel guilty & forced2 stop b4 u can do that thing, that ONE thing, that could make u feel like there was hope?
No but I don't like the sound of it!! Whatever situation you are in does NOT sound healthy... Geeeeet ouuut o.O
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WHAT YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND WHY HAVENT WE TALKED ABOUT THIS WHY AM I NOT IN THOU LOOP TheBae
Because I'm as scared as t*** are wonderful to show up at your house just in case I have to talk to your dad, or your brother... or the dog o.O
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That song is obviously about your ex, was the break up really that bad?
And you obviously misunderstood the message. The relationship itself was toxic. Its done. No second chances because what was once poison will always be poison. "I'll love you forever but now its over" I'll love her as a friend forever... Just from a distance for a while :P
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Use a song to tell someone something you are scared to say.
Love Drunk - Boys Like Girls. Obviously its not a message for my Sonic!! I'm pretty sure the person the message is intended for will figure it out if they listen to the song.
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how do you feel about being back in sarnia?
I've got very mixed feelings. I missed it but its still ... Sarnia...
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what does flakey mean?
Say I'll do things and either not follow through by accident or actively avoid following through because I really didn't want to do it in the first place AND/OR blissfully ignorant of the things I need to or should do but aggressively aware of what everyone else needs to or should do.
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2 things you dislike about yourself?
Easy! I'm flakey and talk way too much.
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did you tell her you were waiting for her to pull her own weight in the contact friendship-department?
Nope but she talks about reciprocation in friendships on a regular basis. I kinda figured she'd try to practice what she expects from others. Maybe that was a little mean of me, kinda like setting her up to fail? Now I feel kinda *****y :/
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So you lovely ladies are long distance huh? :( I would hate that :/ how do you do it?! *hugzzzz*
Just until school starts up again. I don't see it being a huge problem until after she visits and has to go home again :(
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I meant what did your mom say when you came out to her :P but your mom sounds pretty cool with it now :)
When I came out to her? Oh jeeze. We were fighting about something and in the middle of a yelling match I figured she was never going to be able to get any angrier at me so I basically screamed "WELL MAYBE I LIKE GIRLS!" And she just stopped and said, "Oh I know, lets have some ice cream then."
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Do you have a nickname for your girlfriend yet? (something more "girlfriendy" :P then sonic, more relationship-status/pet name?)
So far the only thing that comes to mind is Darling but I'm sure other ones will develop in time. :3
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how did you mom react when you told her?
Well I told her there was a girl and she didn't quite register it until it showed up on Facebook. When it showed up on FB she came into the house, walked right up behind me, stuck her head on m shoulder and very annoyingly said (and repeated) "Who's the girl? huh?huh? Who's the giiiirl? Why haven't I met her?" Etc until I blurted out "SONIC" then she calmed down and began acting like an adult again :P
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Wow! <3 that sounds lovely! I can't wait till something like that happens to me! Its so romantic! *hugs and kisses*
I'll skip the kisses but I'm always happy to give and receive hugs! *hugs hugs hugs and more hugs*
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do you miss talking to her?
Yeah, but friendship is a two way street and it doesn't seem like she was willing to do her half of the work... Maybe we'll connect again later, who knows.
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Awwww! thats too cute! I bet you two are adorable together :3 Did you ask her out or did she ask you?! tell us the story of your romance?
She asked me, via text (because its kinda a long-distance thing right now) with a picture of this adorable stuffed rainbow monkey she bought for me holding a poem asking me to be her girlfriend. I blushed and was absolutely speechless for quite some time, I had to force myself to say SOMETHING so she wouldn't think I was ignoring her (and so she didn't start to think I wanted to say no). So the asking was lovely, the answer was less than my usual eloquence... :$ The story of our romance is kinda simple sweet <3 Girls meet through a friend at school, become friends, get to know one another via letters and text message over the summer, things develop and BANG! Girls date. Its a lovely romance story if you ask me :3 Drama-free and straight forward (once we both admitted to having feelings for each other that is).
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why don't you talk to her?
Dunno. When I was out in MB she started texting less and less. I wanted to text but every time I initiated contact it was either short and to the point or it turned into a fight so I decided it was time to let her pull her own weight in the friendship-contact department... And here we are. Silence for a little more than a month
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How long have you known you were a lesbian? are you a gold star?
I've had an inkling as long as I can remember but I was scared my mum wouldn't accept me. So I dated boys for a little while when I was young. No I'm not a gold star.
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you said "was my nickname for Becca" do you have a different nickname for her now?
I kinda don't talk to her anymore... At least not as often as before. It's kinda sad
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how did you and your girlfriend meet?
Through a mutual friend at Lambton. She was wearing a Sonic hat and I decided (rather impulsively) that her nickname should be Sonic.. That is both how we met and how our friendship started :P
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What did you last dream about?
Honest answer? It was some ****ed up good v.s. evil bull**** wherein I saw everything from a male's point of view and the evil lady's whole plan was to terrorize the men of the world by making them bear children. I'll never eat pizza before bed again.....
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Say some1 brutally did something right infront of u, u were COMPLETELY against then bragged 2ur face abt having done it, proud they’d gone against ur values while knowing u felt opposed 2what they’d done, would u still associate urself with that person?
Hell no o.O But sometimes its hard to not associate with someone like that, they are stubborn people. Might be best to remove yourself from situations they are part of (say come see me, Tom and the ratties :D ) instead of asking they be removed. Its a passive answer yes but getting aggressive isn't an option (if this is who I think it is and you are talking about who I think you are talking about).
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If the one you loved cheated on you and lied to you for over a year about it, what would you do?
Honestly? I'd dump their sorry as* as soon as I found out but that's just me. I suggest talking to them, letting them know that you know and how you feel about it, maybe even asking how many times it has happened and if it will happen again. Be informed before you do the rash thing and tweak out on them. (Speaking from experience here... This is one of those "Do as I say not as I do" moments.)
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I'm tired of lying to keep other's happy.. but if I stop I'll lose something special.. well I used to think it was special.. I just feel caged and empty now </3
You know I get things like this and I feel really bad for answering them because the only honest answer I can give is don't lie. If it takes lies to maintain the relationship then it isn't worth keeping. Maybe it was special once but things can change. Wouldn't you rather have the memories of when it was special untainted by lies and feeling empty?
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I wish that life was like a house, that way I could just move and forget this one.. maybe that new place would be better? I bet it would be.
I agree with this wholeheartedly at times. Then I think about mum, Mike and my little cousins and I reconsider. I'd miss them too much if I just up and moved lives.
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Did you see any squirrel-staches on your way home!?!?! Kns142
FOUR!!! THEY LOOKED GLORIOUS!!!
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How many kids do you want to have?
2 biological and 2-3 adopted.
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who are MaoMao and Kitten?
MaoMao is Kat and Kitten was my nickname for Becca.
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Where are you now? still driving?
Damn right. One hour until I get to the Chi-Cheemaun actually :3
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Are you interested in anyone?
As a matter if fact yes I am :3 They already know it for a fact ;)
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That's quite the travel, bet you seen a wide variety of things!
You didn't happen to see squirrels being used as moustaches did you? :3
Heck no, but I smoked a cigarette from Greece! Maybe I'll see squirrel moustaches on my trip home ;)
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How long did it take you to travel to manitoba?
38 hours on a greyhound bus. Beautiful scenery
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Where do giraffes get made? Is there a giraffe warehouse where they make and store them for distribution to zoos and the wild?
I think there are villages of the sick ****s that man the giraffe suits to fool us. And that is where they prepare the suits themselves. :3
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What is left 4me when I can't evn b me? Y was I born feeling this way? Y do I feel like nothing will evr b ok when evr Im alone with my thots? Im tired of hiding but I'll NEVER b excepted by any1 EVER the whole F'ing world just wants me 2b something else.
Freedom lays in being you and not resting your happiness on the acceptance of others. It may be hard but it will be worth it. If you want to start small message me on Facebook, I guarantee I will not judge you for being you <3
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What r ur views on the different types of *exualities? n I mean the cases that don't involve hurting others, there r so many but at what point do u begin 2 not except ppl? I mean, there r even ppl out there who like animals! r u THAT open to things different?
Honey, what happens behind closed doors is none of my business. If they are appropriately discreet about their *exual activities when asked to be then I don't give a flying **** at a rolling donut what turns their crank. A person is more than who they ****. Of course pedophiles and rapists are the obvious exceptions to that.
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favorite song of all time?
Kryptonite by Three Doors Down
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What have you been doing?
Visiting family, cuddling baby cousins, trying to get up the guts to drive and basically trying NOT to think about going back to college again.
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Why do cupcakes taste so delicious??
Because they are tiny little pieces of heaven with icing... That's why
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Who are you dating?
No one. :3
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Say someone along the lines of a significant other started becoming emotionally distant and straying away from their normal behavior, how would I get to the source of these problems? Simply asking won't work since he's overly stubborn and secretive.
The only thing you can do is ask unless you've suddenly discovered a way to read minds. If they won't share what's up you've got to either trust them or dump them. Sorry dear.
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Who was your childhood best friend?
Stephanie Gilmore. Hands down!