Emma Louise
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Making enemies ?
Nothing. If people want to have misconceptions about me, that is their problem.
I fell for someone else.
Because I’m a cu.nt, and they think they’re perfect ?
Carry on with my life happily. It would be an adjustment, but I have actually lived more of my life without internet, or consistent access to it, than I have lived with it, so I’d be okay.
That would be because I can. Now, how about you get a life and leave me alone? ?
Some of the shoes I own ?
Unless you are myself or Joshua, it's none of your business.
As I said previously, please stop asking me things about Joshua.
I can tell straight off the bat that you are one of Joshua's loyal disciples, and I wouldn't be wrong to say that you believe everything he says, particularly about me.
I'm trying to move beyond this narrative, but I will humour you with a response for clarity.
I did not have the right. Nobody has the right to hurt another human being. He also did not have the right to hurt me the way he did.
It went both ways, and neither of us is innocent of hurting the other.
The difference is, he will only acknowledge my faults and not his own.
Please do not ask me anything further about Joshua, or anything related to him.
You're*
I really enjoy our chats ajoshymous, quality content. If they were a YouTube channel, I would subscribe!
Okay. But, stick with me here, if I did something to you it would be better to approach me directly, rather than hiding behind a screen. So tell me, what did I do?
So in other words, you're not ?
Yeah, I know, but the slower the weight loss, the easier to keep it off. Maybe you should try making some progress to be a nicer human.
I am, thanks for your concern.
Being made redundant, it s*cks because despite how stressful it was, I loved the people.
Look, it's really hard to care when you've got bigger things to focus on in your life.
I really don't, and quite honestly I don't care at all either ?
Whatever you say, gutless anon ??
I don't actually *need* money right now, but it'd be great to have enough money to buy a house.
Pot calling the kettle black, don't you think?
I mean, if someone chose to stop being his friend because of me, were they really his friend to begin with? A true friend wouldn't be so childish.
Apart from that, I'm not going to respond to the rest of your question because people need to let it go - stop bringing it up, just let it die already. While I know Josh has talked ill of me, I won't be lowering myself to that level. I've moved on from it, you should too ?
What happened is between Josh and I. I have nothing to say, especially to anyone who wasn't involved, other than I hope he has a good life, and that I'll still be here if he ever needs a friend.
Hmmm nothing I can think of, honestly ?
Nope. Go away.
Not my problem.
By letting go of the things that hold me back, and learning things that can expand my horizons.
Oooooookay then
Ummm, so do you want to elaborate on what you're saying? Whose parents want to kick them out because of me? ?
Not always, but it also isn't a good reason as to why you feel the need to bring up situations people are past.
We know you're just bored and looking to start drama, but you're wasting your time.
A lot, but also nothing you need to concern your nosey self with.
I don't get why you people have to keep bringing up the past? We've all moved on, let it go!
If that was cu.nt, yes, I am. It is my nickname after all ?
Josh approached me first, almost a year ago, and we rebooted our friendship because not everyone holds onto the past.
I have no intention to fck Juddzy over, nor to hurt Josh.
Try a little harder, anon.
I fixed the fridge with Juddzy's help, so we don't need to buy a new one ???
Awww it's cute that you're trying to hurt my feelings, but unfortunately for you, the words of someone hiding anonymously behind a computer don't mean a thing to me.
You must be very unhappy with yourself, and you should stop projecting.
Uhh, no......?
Oh anon, you're so funny!
You must have missed the part where Josh and I lived in a caravan, a smaller one than his current one actually, along with all our stuff, for a year.
But god job on the blatant fat shaming, you must be a real upstanding human being, just the sort of person we need more of in society ?
Like it's kinda my fault, but I'm not the one that built the house ?
To be fair, until we rented our own house we were meant to be living in that house as well, so we would have been out in a caravan anyway ?
Privacy! ??
Oh my gosh ? We broke up, and I kept the house. It's not exactly my fault his parents house didn't have enough space and they made him move into a caravan ?
That really is reaching, anon.
Exactly ?
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There's a strong difference between entitlement and mental illness. Josh doesn't expect things to be handed to him, he just struggles doing stuff himself sometimes.
The last part of your statement speaks volumes about how well you must know me. My happiness in both relationships is/was on par. I think you're more focusing on my life in general during those times, and I have to say that I've gone through different things during those times, which plays a huge part on my overall happiness. Also in the last year I've been more open with my depression and anxiety, so perhaps you're confusing this for my levels of happiness at a given time?
In terms of getting back together with Josh, we are just friends. My Instagram posts are meant in a platonic way. We're best friends, and we can be a little gay sometimes. It's a thing in our group, which hints to the fact you're very much an outsider.
That said, I also don't know what the future holds, stranger things have happened *shrug* but it's nothing more than friendship right now.
Hi random friend of Josh's! I know right? People are sad haha
Timing is everything! Mum keeps picking the worst possible times to talk, luckily it's via messenger, so it's easy to get back to her later rather than right that second, but it can still be frustrating.
I disagree, and refer you back to a previous response about accepting the consequences. Hindsight is an amazing thing. I by no means feel good about my choices, but I have accepted the consequences of them.
Look anon, I'm going to be straight with you, I've cheated before, yes. However, I feel you are confused about the meaning of mistake, because you can make the same mistake 1000 times, and it's still a mistake - spelling mistakes, for example.
I have never woken up and thought, "Hey, today would be a great day to cheat on my boyfriend/girlfriend", never, not once. It was never something planned out beforehand, but I was conscious of the *choice* I made in that moment, so it certainly wasn't an accident.
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To recap, it was a mistake, but not an accident.
Absolutely. If I could, I'd do everything differently.
I'm definitely not trying to play the victim, nor the one who comes out on top, it's called accepting your mistakes, and living with the consequences. Do you get that feeling because my responses are well thought out and articulated, rather than quick bursts of hostility or defensiveness like most people would give out?
What I mean by my previous answer is that generally someone else has already laid the groundwork for the person in question to have trust issues. Sometimes it's already deep, sometimes it's just scratching the surface, but in my experience, most people I've dealt with are already damaged in that regard before I get to them.
It definitely isn't the nicest feeling, knowing you've hurt someone who loves you and didn't do anything to warrant that pain, but I also can't really take that back. If I had a time machine I would.
I promise you, I was not the one to fck up anyone's trust, it was gone before I existed in their world. Not saying I didn't cause more damage, but the fact is I wasn't the first.
Wow Damian, you've truly outgayed yourself.
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Why are my finances even your concern?
Eh, don't like pointless ones.
He's an adult, he can do what he wants.
Not currently, Juddzy does though and he has to be up in four hours, so what's your point?
Because Juddzy is up playing games on steam, while Josh and I watch stuff on YouTube next to him ?
You'd have to be slow to not realise this already.
You're the one that asked ?
Are you kidding? ? You're just outing yourself now, because everyone who knew us knew we were, and we were planning our wedding for August of last year before we broke up.
???? because it's not even true, that's why.
If Josh has nudes of me, it's going to be from before we broke up ??
Hahahaha no, lack of answer simply means I've been too busy spending the evening with my fiancé and best friend. Fun fact, that friend happens to be Josh. I know exactly how I would feel if he had done it to me, I've been cheated on before, but I don't understand why you're so damn fixated on something that we have moved past? If we weren't over it, Josh wouldn't stay at our house, nor would I have gone clubbing with him or hang out at band practice with the boys. Please just move on.
I always am.
If you're "glad we're not friends anymore", then why are you even wasting your time? I'm fairly certain that we were probably never friends to begin with anyway.
I don't send nudes to my ex either ?
I mean, spelling correctly is a hobby of mine. Funny though, I don't manipulate people, and cheating isn't a hobby, it's a thing I did, and both Josh and I have moved on. Try again.
Oh my god ? Do you not have a hobby or something better to do with your life?
Doesn't make you any less pathetic ?
I'm hoping this is who I think, and if so, I really appreciate you too.
You can doubt all you like. Actually anon, I've been here the whole time, Louise and I just needed some time apart, and now our friendship is better than before. Maybe you could try to leave her alone for a while yourself, and you'll probably find she will talk to you eventually, but stop trying to turn people against her, it's pathetic.
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Hi anon, that would be because mature people actually talk about their issues, rather than bottling it up. We took a vote, we are all over it, maybe you should too, because I'm pretty sure you weren't even around when all of this went down originally anyway, so I'm not sure why you're so invested ?
You're a sweetheart, and I'm so glad you're in my life ❤
Aww thanks anon, but it's really just angles and filters - in person I'm a potato, and my personality is as exciting as paint drying.
That's the world we live in, it's a shame.
It's funny, that post was actually completely unrelated to everything that was going on over here, and the fact you feel the need to bring it up is hilarious, because it must have hit a nerve. It's also hilarious, yet very sad and pathetic, that you're getting off on harassing and bullying someone while you're hidden away behind a screen - be a mature adult and approach me about things personally, or simply say nothing at all, and live with it internally.
Enjoy being unhappy with yourself, but don't bother taking it out on me!
See previous answer ?
That's nice, I'm glad you can read. I won't repeat myself, but I've already explained why I'm not working, both in terms of being made redundant and what's currently stopping me. No point making cracks when I won't be offended ?
I have to get up early.
Sure did. Bye!
Nice try, this is still set to registered users only, so I know you have an account ?
I've only ever sent positive and constructive things ??