Phemelo Jay
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How much money do you need right now and why ?
1000 Because after party is expensive
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What are you afraid to admit you don't understand?
Love (how to love and be loved)
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What is your number one rule?
For myself, by myself
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Do you think love is real?
Definitely but it manifests in all types of ways
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Do you love Zoë? And are you two a thing?
Most definitely
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The secret to a good friendship is... ?
Consistency like be there even if you not needed
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What's the most expensive thing you own?
A watch from tag
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There's no hope for you and Zoe
That's cute
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What is something you need to get off your chest?
My parents need to stop pushing me for a relationship with people I don't want
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Is there anyone special to you in your life and if so who?
Same girl
Just more special
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What were you doing seven years ago?
Reading in a library somewhere
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Do you believe in true love? And if so what/who do you want your true love to be like?
Yes but I don't know enough about love to answer that second half of your question but there's this really special girl who's kinda doing the most right now
Which country are you from and which country would you like to visit ?
South Africa and Spain
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Dream car ?
I don't believe I a dream anything
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What are you hoping for in 2k17
Good matric results
Fitter and leaner body
Solid relationships and happiness
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What is your New Year's resolution?
Stick with the me that I worked so hard to find
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What is something that actually offends you?
Are you still with your little girls
Like I got a person now u poes
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Do you think about me...?
I can't answer if I don't know your name
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Are you with Zoe now ?
Nothing officially but as soon as I'm done with my issues then yes
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You still keen for hookups even tho a lot of sht is going on in your life? ?
I'm kinda with someone but whatever anonymous
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What makes you happy
Oak a lot
Like how everything just seemed to work out today
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What stresses you
1 ) Is she ok?
2 ) Matric
3 ) I'm getting fat
4 )I'm broke
5 ) Building the wrong kind of weight #im getting fat
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What do you think about the most ?
My mom
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Em....what do u look for in a girl...and her body????
Confidence within her body is key ..
Size doesn't really matter nor does complexion
Only thing I'm fussy about is teeth
But otherwise I like to think Myself open-minded
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In your one instagram picture you said there's that one girl you have to let go and since Zoe is the only other girl besides the ex you've had a thing with does that mean u leaving her
?
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When you clench your jaw??
I know who this is?❤️
And I want my sweatpants back
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People who are attacking you have no right to it because no one knows how much you were dying when you and her were on that stupid break
It's ok really people will say and believe what they want besides the guy is the one that's meant to do the hurting right?
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You could've done better than your ex, idk even know why you hyped her lol
Shut your **** mouth and get back in your box also throw shade at someone else and let us shine
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I feel like people are dictating you because of a break up , yes I know ur both hurt , but we all go through them ,don't we? Its not easy but were getting there , I just don't think them dictating u is helping you with the healing process x.infinate
True but there's a lot of controversy over my moving on because of the rapidness of the situation.
Idk some part of what you say is true but I also need to sift through my emotions and deal with some aspects of my past and acknowledge my pain because it keeps coming back and it's killing me... but thanks for kinda understanding at least a little of my story
You gonna alright
I've always been alright
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You can't let the girl dictate your happiness
I was broken long before her
My problems are deeper than my girl problems
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When you say I annoy ficked right now what do you mean like what did you do that you so sorry for
Anxiety and the only way I've been dealing is with alcohol and cigarettes and my family was hurt because they were times where i disappeared without contact and as for the rest there's this girl and I fcked up with her and then I fcked up with another
Cool right bye
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Relationship status
I'll let you know if I know
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What's pissing you off right now ?
Everyone thinking I cheated
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Girl from the snap story?
What's your question?
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You hurting her right now
Im hurting too
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What has jackey given you that u love and appreciate about her
And what would u say u love most about her?
Hope in love because I was too far gone before her that girl knew everything from my mom toy he dark sht and still didn't change or judge me I'm forever gonna be grateful for that.
I loved her Frenchness she was very proud I think of Lingala and her language and it was the most beautiful thing ever for me to witness her acknowledge her heritage but me and her are over and I'm ok with that x
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Would u say u had another chic while dating Jackey?
Never.
I'd never do that to any girl let alone Jackey
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Would it be weird if a girl wanted to slide into your dms?
Not at all
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What do you look for in a girl?
Understanding
Compassion
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You and Bonolo would have been the power couple of the school
Me and the queen are honored but no?
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U downgraded from Jackey
Ncaww that's cute do u want a doggy biscuit?
Careful.....no one likes a little btch
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1) what do you mean she kinda stupid at times ??
2)why'd you say she got an imagination?
1) She can't see she's perfect and it irritates me? And she's slow in the mornings which is actually cute.
2.) ? I meant what I meant her mind is a beautiful thing
What does the new girl have that all the other girls don't ?
Nothing and everything at the same time.
She kinda cute but won't acknowledge it.
She's kinda smart but stupid at times...
She has imagination ?
Baby got my heart
Baby got soul
All these other girls just don't get me
Why the new girl?
We connected even before I broke up with J ,she didn't break us up but she was there when me and J was dealing with sht so I kinda fell during all that
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1-) are you gay
2-) are u depressed
1.) I hope you don't have a sister??
2) Definitely not
Don't forget the punctuation marks next time?
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Oh okay so u don't miss the other girl in any way whatsoever?
Of course I miss her
But I'm also not gonna live my life missing her.
I'm content with the new one and she genuinely makes me happy she's not a rebound for me
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What happened to you and the girl and who's the new one
First and last time I'm gonna answer so pay attention.
After having spoke about it we both agreed that even though I've cared about each other,lol I finna loved her actually it just wasn't gonna work and that we didn't want any tears ayt the end of it so yeah we broke up but we cool and there is no tension at all.
Honestly hope she's happy.
As for the new one,which one?
lol I'm joking there's only one? And I wanna do the most for her
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Don't change
Wasn't really planning on it
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If you could reach into any movie and pull something out, what would you take?
The elder wand
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Are you coloured?
No I'm culturally diverse ?
My biological family is black but I spend a lot of time with my god family which is white.
Coconut af?
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Big lips but nice smile??
Big lips kiss better?
Lol thanks? x
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Zoe?
❤️?
If that doesn't answer it I don't know what else
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Smile??????
I should probably wear it more??
Thanks so much x
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How are you feeling?
Have a feeling I know who this is??
I'm on and off
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How are you feeling right now?
This question is so potent...
A bit of sadness and some happiness
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Don't u think it's a bit early to move on?
Don't u think u should return to ur little box and stay in it?
The box where my relationships have nothing to do with you
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Can we fly away to meet the lots boys and Peter Pan and never come back??
Only if you'll be Wendy?
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Something about you know one knows
No one*
I grew up poor
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Who do you miss right now?
Trying not to miss people
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Zoe? Because I ship it
She's great but I'm still completely attached to someone else
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What makes your life worth living?
I'd say her but I can't so it's basically giving people hope in life again , making them smile or simply seeing them happy again.
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Who were your best friends from grade 3 to 5?
The same boys you see me with now
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did you piss in the grass?
Hectic? I'm not exposing
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lol I've been there! Did he ask them to pull over before he resorted to the widow? jes1378810118
Ehhh my brothers a nag , ?
We pulled over but he was to bang broek of whatever to get to the grass
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haha why did you both need to go? long trip, or had you drank too much? jes1378810118
It was one of those 6hr road trips where you wake up early and didn't listen to mom when she sad go piss now so about 3hrs later u need to go because you haven't pissed all night
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haha like a car window? jes1378810118
Yesss
Hmmm someone is quick I see??
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Have you ever been annoyed because your brother got to go pee somewhere but you didn't?
Yess actually?
He got to Pee out the window I had hold it
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What happened with you and Jackie
Jackey* and idk ?We just have our own issues but we'll be fine I think
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How was the year 2016 for you , so far ?
Best year by far
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Dream Job ?
Chairman of my own company with a phd in psychology
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Who was your first crush ?
Ayyyyy....?☺️
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What was your first cellphone ?
Samsung E250