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So are u sure lesingan'sakho is faithful and not cheating ngoba wena ulapho yena ala?
Washo engathi ulapho eduze kwakho? Akwenzayo in his spare time while we're not 2geda is his business akuhlangene nami, its a free country asihadile.
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What car do you drive?
One that has 4 wheels
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So utobe ubhizi ngani weekend?
2nite I have plans wid sumone, rest of the weekend its rest & spending time wid my son.
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How do you normally react to a comliment from a man? For example: Hey the lady, I think you are gorgeous.
I smile & politely say 'thank u'.
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have u fully recovered from the car accident? hope u did.
I can say I'm 90% recovered, some things will just neva go back to the way they were before it...but I'm alive & kicking & functional :o) am grateful to God for that
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Any regrets from your past and things you wish you could change?
Tink I was asked dis not so long ago. My answer is stil d same, isingisi sithi 'accept the things you cannot change'. Everything dat has happened in my life wether gud or bad happened for a reason & it has made me d person I am 2day. Every person dat has walked into my life & either stayed or walked out has...God had a reason 4 making our paths cross & I choose 2take d positive out of it.
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Ubani ofuna awine on Idols?
Crushanda without a doubt
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Wat do u do for fun or leisure?
Honestly for the past 6months or so been taking it easy & being a gud gal, staying indoors wid fam & glued 2d TV...but as of nxt friday dats abt 2change :o) Lifes too short & I gotta awaken dat social butterfly in me & get out, let my hair down, meet new faces & people AND wat beta place & tym 2do dat dan in Dbn pre-festive season...u never knw wat cud *** out of it hey *wink*
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Have u ever dated someone that you met on facebook? If yes, did the relationship last?
And me dating sumone & our relationship lasting or not lasting irrespective of how we met will impact on your love-life how?
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Where wud u like 2be in d next 5yrs?
In 5yrs time I'd like 2b waking up in the arms of a husband I'm passionately in luv wid...being a spiritual, exampleray & gud Mum 2 our adorable, respectful kids...driving to a fulfilling job dat I luv & surrounded by loving & supportive family & friends.
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If you were to come back to KZN, which place u wud lv to explorer & why?
I came bac 2KZN 5mnths ago. Wud luv 2explore da Drakensburg & South coast. Dey both offer d best of KZN...da beach & d mountains...romantic & refreshing.
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One thing you would like to be remembered by?
My smile
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Who u date a guy who is an extreme metro*exual. Think David Beckham. The type who has manicures and facials?
I'm guessing u mean 'wud' I date...d answer is probably not, I luv a manly man but who stil tajes care of himself & has good hygiene. Manicures & pedicures...eish its pushing it.
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Would u date or marry a man onengane?
Yes
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Being apart frm ur man most of the time, how do u cope with the frustration of not having *ex with him anytime u want to?
Thot I answered dis question a while back...I just survive. Self-disciple &having wat I hope is a mutual respect for our relationship & him qha
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Who are you dating at the moment?
I'm not dating
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Doggy or missionary?
Its irrelevant cos angilali nawe, dat info is reserved 4d man I share a bed wid.
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Ugqokeni?
Wat else wud I b wearing @ds tym? I'm rocking high heels & a thong lol
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Wat r u doing rite now?
Watching E News
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Hw many guys dd u flirt with while u were @ tsb?
None
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Do you think some women drive their husbands/boy away?
De mite be tings a woman does 2 create distance between herself & her partner, but @d same tym some men jst r never satisfied. So only a man & God know wat drives him away frm his woman if & wen dat happens.
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Whats your take on women who are so negative about marriage?
Guess I'd have 2understand their reasoning behind y dey r negative abt marraige, their experiences & cir***stances for me 2answer dat.
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Why do celebs relationships always (predictable) end in disaster?
Problem wid celebrities in my opinion is their relationships r made public business & every little hiccup that wud under normal cir***stances be dealt with is blown out of proportion by tabloids. Otherwise no relationship be it a celebrity or normal couple doesn't come wid its challenges...and many normal relationships also end in disaster.
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I was sittin next to you at the ICC izolo. I must say lendunu yakho enhle ave ngiyihalela.... Ubani lo obuhamba naye?
Uyibone kanjani indunu yami ngoba bengifake isketi. Bengihamba wid colleagues.
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What would people be surprised to find out about you?
A lot
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Would you inform your friend if you caught his nyatsi in the act with a married women?
I love my friends dearly, but I've learnt from experience dat eyababili ayingenwa...uphenduka isilima wedwa as long as luv is d name of d game.
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Do you think its fair that the mpumalanga government only caters for Nst which is no where near the other big towns of the province?
Caters 4 Nst in wat way? I'm no politician or can I claim I understand hw Govt operates. Bt I assume dat in any Province da Capital City shud stand out. I also andastand dat every Municipality has its own governance &a budget dat is de 2cater for the needs of dat Local Municipality. So maybe dat is where these big towns in Mp shud improve on...electing da rite ppl locally who want 2uplift &bring progress.
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Uthanda ipipi elikhulu or elincane?
Clearly ur either a pevert or an amateur 2ask me such a question. Cos ud knw dat size only matters if its tiny adawise des more 2 making love dan how big it is...and *exual satisfaction is nt just abt unleashing an Anaconda &shoving it u know where... bt its also abt being in sync wid yo partner physically, mentally &emotionally...da skills u both possess & are willing 2 acquire in da bedroom task...da time & care u both take in optimising each adas pleasures, fantasies & needs. If u don't have all of dis even a super-sized one is useless.
What is your stance on religion?
I think Religion is where it all went wrong...da inception of religion created division by grouping &classifying human-kind, provided a platform to condone & disguise power hungry greedy individuals & made human kind lose focus of wats reali important...having a relationship with God, which @da end of d day is wats important. But ke it is wat it is...religion is here 2stay &dats d state of d world 2day.
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Apart from your blanket onamehlo, what do you mean? Yena uyazi ukuthi uzobe elele nobani lapho akhona?
Aprat meaning we in diff Provinces, long distance love. I trust that he is also going 2bed alone & if he isn't dats his problem not mine. It will be my problem the day it affects our relationship &he gives me reason 2doubt him. Until den we have a mutual respect, trust & love 4 each ada & our relationship.
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Who are you going 2bed wid tonight in this weather?
Am going 2bed wid me, myself & I. I have enuf blankets 2keep me warm being apart from ublanket wami onamehlo.
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Have u every had *ex at work?
HeeelLLl no, hahaha I keep my galavanting out of d workplace.
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Would you date a guy dats younger than you? If not why?
Yes I wud & I have...age aint nothing but a number. The older u get, da mo d age difference becomes insignificant provided ur on d same level of maturity. Bt my limit is no more dan 3yrs younger :D
What keeps u going when things don't look good?
My son...he's all d reason I need 2keep on pushing.
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Do u ever wish you could turn back the hands of tym? If you could what would you change?
Yes @tyms I do &des a lot I wud change if I cud. Like keeping my GranMa alive so she cud see me Graduate from Varsity, get my 1st job & enjoy being spoilt by her Grandaughter. I'd change d nite of dat car accident where we lost a dear friend & colleague. I'd rewind & hold my tongue a second b4 every nasty cruel word iv uttered in d middle of an argument...I cud go on & on wishing I cud turn bac d hands of tym but I can't. Hence I'm grateful for what I have now &blv for everything dat happens in life God has a bigger plan & purpose 4us.
Ever lusted/crushed on a friends bf/ex??
Nah
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Are you dating anyone? And y him & not the next guy?
I'm not dating anyone...I'm in a relationship.
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What r u having for supper?
Don't know, just woke up from a nap. Probably bread neqanda &plain yoghurt 4 desert
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If you had 3 wishes wat would you wish for?
1. To live a long healthy, fulfiling & content life.
2. To be able to walk in heels again.
3. To be able to kneel lyk a normal person pain-free again.
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White wedding, traditional wedding or elope?
As long as its with the man I love &adore I'll even do Las Vegas...it doesn't matter
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Do u wear full panties, a g-string or hot pants or french knickers?
MamHlongo...lol As long as u dny buy my underwear it shudnt bother u
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Have you ever been caught in the act by an elder or a kid? Lol
Hell no, I make sure the coast is clear wen I get down 2my hanky panky biz 'lol
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Have u eva had a 1 nite stand?? If yes,how was it?
Yes & it wasn't worth it.
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Whn last did u fake da orgasm?Lol
GWAAA honestly, can't remember. I used to but with growth a woman learns dat faking it doesn't benefit either party. So I want 2 enjoy making love 2my partner, so if either one of us isn't satisfied I trust we can talk openly about it &find ways &means of optimising each adas pleasure. If vele I'm banging my head against a brick wall, no point in sticking around 2toture myself.
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the real reason why ar u not attending ur friend's bridal shower next weekend tli tli tli?
Lmao oooh I tink I knw who dis one is frm. Am not attending my friends bridal shower cos those Anti's asebenza nabo r throwing it @ frikkin Wimpy...how can dey, Wimpy of all places engathi umhlangano weStokfela sothisha. So me & my friends r gonna do it our way &throwing her a mother of all k**ky Bridal showers :o)
when lst did u give a ****job?
Hahaha ayi yah, da last tym I was wid my man
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Did you eventually go on that weekend getaway, and how was it?
Da only getaway I had planned was for Spring, so it hasn't happened yet.
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What are you most afraid of?
Besides reptiles (snakes, frogs etc) its losing someone near & dear 2my heart
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wat is your greatest achivement?
Finding peace, acceptance & contentment in my life as it is.
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Describe yourself in 3 words?
Outspoken, brave & big-hearted
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Who are you dating currently
A great, loving &damn *exy man who shall remain nameless bcos of obvious reasons 'lol
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HI are you 29?
Proudly 29 & loving it :o)
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What's the one rumour you've heard about you that is not true?
That both my legs were chopped off & decaying in the accident scene of a car crash I was in