Bethanie Pretty
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You have a beautiful baby, don't listen to any of the negative **** people say. You've made a great life for yourself and at such a young age you have already accomplished so much. Hopefully catch up soon :)
Thanks. :) Hopefully? Haha gotta know who you are first. :p
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Ima throw poo at u
Zoe you're gross
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You eat poo
Zoe you're gross
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You're a poo
Zoe you're gross
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Also, to those saying your baby is fat. That is the most horrible thing in the world to say. It doesn't bloody well matter! You are going to make this poor child believe that how you look matter. This belief comes from horrible people like you.
Exactly, the world would be better off without people like them!
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You have the most beautiful baby boy, and I hope you and Tait have a lovely life together :) many people may judge you and say nasty things, but they will never have the courage that you have to look after another person at such a young age.
Aw thank you! xx
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Do you like it in the arse baby ;)
Oh yeah? ;) hahahaha?
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What the actual **** I just read these and saw the awful things they said about Anakin, how about they f uck off and get a grip. Your son is so beautiful Beth, make sure you dont let them get to you. Xxxx tiahall
Thanks beautiful girl! I know, so rude. But whatever, I know he's the cutest thing ever. :p And whatever they say about me couldn't brother me less. <3
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people are going to say your baby is cute , but the **** ive heard people say about him.. you would be shocked. he is very ugly & fat.. i guess he gets it from his mum..
I guess you get your personality from your mum, rude as* *****. Byeeeee
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your sons really fat & ugly..
Yeah okay, whatever you say. The fact that you feel the need to insult a five month old baby to get to me must make you feel so big, buddy... Not a **** was given about what you think, when I and so many other people know that he is a happy, healthy, beautiful little boy.
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Congratulations on going back to school, you must be so proud x
Thank you, I really am. :) It will be tough at times but worth it in the end when I have a good career to support my family.
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I really admire you for going back to school after having a child.
You're doing such a great job and are such a good role model setting such a positive example for your child to flourish under. You go girl xo
Thank you very much. :) It's so worth it.
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Have you ever had feelings for a friend?
Yes haha.
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what is your best feature
Hmm, not sure... Tait says my smile, does that count? Haha
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I actually can't wait for you to start year 11 at WSC! Can't wait to get to know you better. What subjects do you want to do?
Aw cool! You should inbox me? :) I'm doing health & human development, psych, biol, English and food tech.
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You're such a beautiful girl! Xoxo tiahall
Aw Tiannen! Thanks love, you're stunning. xo
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I think you're annoying and I am going to take your baby. :D
Haha good luck?
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if you go to school who will look after annikin?
Tait will have him on days that he is not working/not working until that evening, otherwise my mum is going to take him on the other days.
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Does tait help out with all the bay stuff?
Yeah he does, he's great. :)
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Did you poo on the table while giving birth? I've heard it's quite common. How long were you in labour for? And did you do it naturally?
To be honest I don't know, I actually asked for everybody to not tell me if it happened as I'd be too embarrassed haha. But yes, it is quite common because it's the same pushing action as taking a poo. :p I was in 'active labour' for 19 and a half hours but I went into 'early labour' about 36 hours before he was born. So very longgggg, haha. I had him naturally (no c section) but I had the gas and an epidural. :)
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You have a nice rack! ;)
Thanks? :p
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What size t*** do you have? They are huge. ;)
Haha yes they are, but I'm not telling you what size they are!
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Favourite car?
No idea! But I'd love a Mazda 3.
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Why are you such a shim? Like o.m.g. Shim ness to the max
Thanks Tait. :*
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Did you rip while goving birth?
Thankfully no!
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What upsets you?
Not having nice clothes. :'(
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fav superhero?
Um, Spider-Man. :)
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What is your weakness?
Shopping. D:
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what is your idea of the perfect date
Hmm, going somewhere lovely for dinner, then doing something fun like dancing or a carnival, then going for a nighttime walk to get ice cream. :) Oh, and I must receive flowers. ;) That's a perfect date. Probably so cliché, lol.
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if you had a million$ what would you do with it?
I'd buy a house, another house to renovate, a new car and any that's left I'd put into savings.
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Wrong answer Bethy Boo. Megan Fox!!
Reow, Megan Fox too. There is always room for both of them. :p
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Which celebrity would you leave your girl or boyfriend for?
Katy Perry. :*
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P.s I have nothing against your choice I think you made the right choice and are a wonderful mother, and he is gorgeous x
And thanks, haha. :)
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When found out you were pregnant did you freak out or were you immediately happy? I remeber you posting our little miricle, is that how you immediately thought about it or where you like **** I'm going to be a teen mum
I was really shocked, and unsure how to feel, but I knew right away that I was going to be a mum! I don't think any other choice would have been right for me.
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What is your nickname?
I have heaps... Bethy, Bethy-Lu, Lu-Lu, haha.
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Aren't you worried about getting married so young
Nope, haha. Why would I be? Besides, I might not even get married until I'm 30+. There's no date set so I might not be 'young' when I am married!
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Annikin is adorable. We aren't really friends but I am so happy you have been blessed with a beautiful boy. One day I will hopefully be a mother too x
Aw thanks, yes Anakin is beautiful. :) I'm sure you will be!
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18 SOOOOOOON!!!! WOOOO! MELBOURNE!!
Hahahahaha yep!!
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Do you have an agreement to see his messages now after everything?
Not really, but if I were to ask him to let me I know he would say yes. Otherwise I'd get mad. :p
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Do you ever regret that by having Anakin, you're effectively putting your life on hold for the next 10+ years? I know you don't regret keeping him, but is there a part of you that wishes you had the chance to have the 'normal' YA experience?
Nope, not at all. I don't feel at all that I've put my life on hold. Anakin IS my life, this is my life. I also don't know what a YA experience is hahahahaha.
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Was it your choice for him to delete his facebook?
No, it was his and only his, I didn't even know until a little bit after.
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When are you planning on getting married? :)
Not sure! Tait wants to get married next year but I want to finish year 12 first and lose all this darn weight. :p haha. Hopefully within the next 3 years, though!
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How did it make you feel last year when that thing was posted of tait and another girl talking? Then Tait deleted his facebook.. I always felt so sorry for you! It's good to see he has stepped up now and seems to be an amazing father.
Ehh, it made me feel pretty ****, tbh. I was really crushed by it, and couldn't actually believe it had happened. But we got through it, and yes, he's now a great dad. :)
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Hey Beth, not long until the big 1-8 now! cant wait!!!
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I KNOWWWWWWW OMG BABY, Melbourne here I come. ;)
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How long would you like to live for?
Til I'm 114.
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ur a tart tart. fgt.
ok Lani.
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I heard that you got pregnant on purpose
Is that so? Haha.
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You said we would catch up and talk but you never did. Do you usually not stick to your word?
Ahh well did it occur to you that I'm a mum so maybe it hasn't been at the top of my list of priorities? Haha. If you want to catch up, all you have to do is send me a text or inbox via Facebook and we'll organise something, lmao.
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What turns you off in a girl/guy ?
Probably dishonesty?
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Did you and tait try and have a baby to see if the doctors were wrong about the 4% chance
Haha no, Anakin was completely unplanned.
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Why do you want to have another baby so soon
I'd just like to have kids close in age. :) It gets all the baby stuff over and done with earlier, so I have the rest of my life to work on my career with kids who are old enough to not need me every second, if that makes sense?
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When will you want to have another baby?
If I could I'd have another baby now! :p Haha but I want to finish school first, so if all goes to plan, I'd like to start trying to have another by the end of next year. :)
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How did you get pregnant? Were you on the pill and just didn't use a condom or??
We weren't using any sort of contraception - sounds stupid, I know, but I actually have a condition that women usually can't fall pregnant with and was given a 4% chance of falling pregnant naturally! So it was extremely unexpected haha.
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What is success to you?
Achieving the things in life that make you happiest!
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Ahh it's so funny how some people become mothers (like it's such a hard thing to do...) and then think they have become some genius with the answers to everything, when in reality they are just pretentious try-hards.
Umm, okay?
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level the name Anakin! It was on my list too believe it or not :)
It's a great name! :)
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What did your parents say when you told them
You were pregnant
Well my mum was with me when I found out, and she didn't say much at all. :p My dad said 'omg are you sure it's yours??' He was happy for us. :)
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I thought taits pop was named Anakin?
No? His name was Peter, haha.
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How awesome are you on a scale of 1 to 10?
1,000,000
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Did you get the name anakin from Star Wars? Because I've always loved that name
Well, yeah kinda. Like, that's where we heard it but we didn't name him Anakin because of Star Wars. We also just like the name. :) It's pretty epic. :p
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Someone who you tell things too, and trust?
Would have to be Tait, haha! There's others but he's at the top of my list. :)
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I meant v***** size!
Ohhhh! Well that doesn't really change, haha. Despite contrary belief, you don't get 'loose' lol. Some girls who have to get stitches actually get stitched back tighter, hahaha. But things certainly feel differently down there for a little while.
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Ohh beth! You have such a beautiful soul! I admire you to the moon and back! ! Love and light to you x
Thank you! Whoever you are, haha. xx
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This is going to sound weird but how long after birth do you stop bleeding? And when do you go back to normal size?
Haha well it varies for different women, but anywhere up to 6 or so weeks is normal. Bleh. -.- And by normal size I'm going to assume you mean to your pre pregnancy size, and that really also depends on how much weight you gain during pregnancy and how hard you work to get it off afterwards.
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Would you do it again?
Oh yes, I wouldn't hesitate to do it again.
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Was labor painful?
Hahaha, yes. Most painful thing I've ever experienced.
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I admire you. I don't really know you too well but I think that what you achieved in raising Anakin is inspirational. You're an amazing young woman.
Aw, thank you very much. It means a lot. :)
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What advice would you give to a girl that is underage and and pregnant, with little money and support?
That's really tricky, because every girls situation is different. But if you know that you want to keep your baby, the first thing you need is a place to live, so if you have any family or close friends that will take you in, even for a little while, don't hesitate to take them up on their offers! Seriously take any help you can get because you're going to need it to give you and your baby the best start you can. There's no shame in asking, either. Secondly, there are organisations through DHS and centrelink that can help you find housing, so try to find out some more information about that. What I've learnt is that if you are determined enough, you can do it, no matter how hard it's gonna be.
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how did you feel when you found out you were pregnant
I was very surprised, and of course shocked and scared. But I knew from the beginning that I wanted to keep the baby and that no matter how difficult it would be I could do it.
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Ya ****ing **** head (not sent from Millie)
Love me, Millie. :*
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What's your dream job?
I'd really like to work with teen mums to help them get their lives on track! I also really want to be a midwife. :)
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You're gorgeous!
Awww, thank you. :*