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tell him. be strong, bold, and proud. what do you have to loose?
aw. look if this person just got rejected give them a little time to cool down. try writing them something anon to let them know that they are loved. and over time ease him into the idea that it was you :)
you are SO sweet. and such a good friend. tell her, i mean giving her hints obviously isnt working. so just tell her. i like you for you. and if you want to hang out with the popular people fine, but just know. your you. and thats ALL i want :)
make it known, make him pay. NO ONE should be bullied ever, no matter who it is or what they have had in their past or your past. they have absolutely NO right to treat you that way. tell them to stop and make sure they know your completely confident. they think your an easy target, thats why they picked you but prove them wrong. if you know you cant talk to them call for attention get your friends to help you. him alone against all of your friends and he will apologize and if he doesnt forget him and his stupid ways. live life like you want to live it okay? dont let as*es like them bring you down okay? :) let us know how it goes:D
no problem :) hope you like it <3
that s*ckss :/ try to talk to them about it now so that wont happen, and if they are really your friends they will understand. I really hope everything is going to be okay, if they really are the best people arent they worth saving? ;) good luck!
i know, i know, we have responded to all and we will try to answer the same day the questions are asked, so sorry.
look at people in your clas*es, is there ANYONE you could possibly get to know more? and what about WWW right, isnt that an amazing time to make friends? im sure everythings okay, you seem like an amazing person. good luck <3
dont be depressed. i think being homose*ual is COMPLETELY okay and its good that you know that but one of the difficulties about being homose*ual is finding someone else who likes you too. but sometimes we go through phases and you might think your into a girl but later on in the year you might think differently.
talk to her about it. i know that its a touchy topic to bring up and you dont want to talk about it and you also dont want her to feel lieft out but, its not going to change if you dont do anything okay? :)
no, but okay and like i said. we are TWO people :) advice only please.
thank you :) i feel the same way.
im sure anon helper is great, but thank you anyways :) <3
oh thank goodness <3 that was the hope, to help :) im so happy everything is okay now. haters gonna hate right? :)
go up to this guy. and ask him. ask him out as 'dare' and see what he says! :) a lot of guys flirt but never do anything. and ik it might be a lil embarras*ing but no regrets, you will never know until you try!
okay honey thanks :) give us your qooh? :) you anon! :(
look at his interests. what do you guys like to do together? anything special happened the first time you two met or kissed? i would say bake him something. or during the week, give him letters saying he has something special planned for him, or set up a scavenger hunt for him and give him notes to find you. then give him a card and something to eat. might as well have a cute date like going ice skating or bowling. if hes on the soccer or basketball team, bake him a cake in a shape of a ball saying "i love you" just cute stuff like that. good luck! <3
thanks :)
i like you.
np hope you like it :)
ohh dearr. that s*cks, I\'m sorry. if she doesnt see how special you are, then she is NOT the friend for you. It okay to miss her because she was a huge part of your life. But if she is going to treat you anything less then a friend, then that is her loss. I know its hard to accept. but its true.
please. go tell someone. ik youve heard this before. but your life is just beginning. i bet you in a couple years things wont be this way. please. for me. just stop. please. ik its hard. BUT WE CAN GET THROUGH THIS. tell someone whats happening. please. please. please.
it doesnt matter. you are YOU.
you dont need to be perfect for guys to like you or to get friends.
you dont know anything, trust me. so wait for this boy to ask you out, and tell him how you really feel. tell him that you dont like him other than as a friend, and you really hope everything works out. and remember to say; thank you for asking me. you really made me feel special! :)
when you give up your virginity, no matter how badly you want to do it. at this age, you give away a part of your soul that you should still have; innocence. dont let a guy steal your soul then throw it out. you wait for the right person. and when you do, a piece of you wont be missing, a new piece will be added. at this age. theres still no room, nothings gonna be added, something has to be taken away. keep that in mind.
thanks for asking! :) <3
thanks for asking <3
well, check whats going on! see why one friend is treating the other so badly. ive been in a situation like this before and it so happened that you might be the only reason the other two friends are even talking. they might hate each other or have other issues and they are trying to win you over each other and remember NEVER to let that happen because you dont know they whole story, so dont judge and pick a friend just by knowing their side. :)
thank you SO much :)
first of all, i know this is not yami and if it is i dont know why you signed your name. secondly, no it doesn't make you a slu*, but its not good to have se* at such a young age because you can get pregnant and it WILL ruin your life. also, its your decision when to start having se*, but understand the earlier you do it, the more chance of consequences you have.
well ask her why! ive been in the same situation and its never going to work out if you dont TALK ABOUT IT. please, no matter what, talk to her.
thank you so much <3 and thank YOU :)
dont do anything. if you try to break them apart things will just get worse. if he flirts with you then he probably likes you and will break up with the other girl sooner or later. you dont have to break them apart otherwise he will be mad at you for something he could have done without anyone being involved.
well get to know him better, try to be like his girl best friend :)
why are you mad at them? did they do something to you? talk about it with them. TRUST ME. and whatever you do DO NOT spread rumors because they WILL find out no matter what.
sometimes it helps to tell them because they just might like you back or if you tell them they might find it cute and might like you back after you tell them. but if he is dating someone or you know he likes someone else then dont because he will see you as clingy and needy. it depends on your judgement. does he flirt with you a lot or are you just a friend? find out who he likes! im sure somebody knows and if no one does, find out yourself and become closer to him!
okay thanks. but thats why we are here. :PP
thank you!
does it matter? and thank you <3
ahaha no sorry :)
thank you <3
i need more info please :)
is your best friend a guy or a girl? are you a guy are a girl? did you do anything that may have upset her/him?
is she/he talking to other people or completely blocking out everyone?
ive been in this situation more than about 10 times :) and you HAVE to understand that not all guys will like you weather they you are not their type, or they like someone else, thats not in your hands and please dont change yourself for that. :)
i need more info please :)
is your best friend a guy or a girl? are you a guy are a girl? did you do anything that may have upset her/him?
is she/he talking to other people or completely blocking out everyone?
my opinion, is a guy who will kiss me on the forehead instead of trying to get some. a guy who will tell me that im beautiful not se*y and a guy who will listen and laugh even when its not funny :)
depends on the time, please explain more :)
2 people who like fish :P
thank you sweetiepie :)
read the description! :)
well, from what your saying i understand that you have a lot of mixed feelings about him and thats totally okay at this age :) but you need to understand that if he is dating someone else you shouldn't interfere with their relationship and try to break them apart, because you are breaking both of their hearts and he will hate you for that. maybe if they break up naturally and after a while, maybe a couple of months you can ask him out because there is nothing wrong with that and if you dont want that, then your going to have to wait and see if he might like you too. good luck and tell me how it goes :) <3
thank you! and yes, we are :)
okay. first of all NO ONE should make you feel like you should be skinny to feel pretty or to have friends. i have so many people telling me that "no one likes me and im not pretty". they ARE liked and they ARE pretty, its just no one sees it because they are constantly telling themselves that they are not and it just makes them not believe in themselves and less confident. maybe your body was ment to be a bit bigger than other girls but that doesnt mean it should stop you from having friends! go out, and socialize and dont stop at meeting two or three people. go around, and see the people who accept you and get you. trust me, there is at least 100 people that you know who love you and you know it. okay? let me know if i've left anything out and let me know how things work out :) <3
ill reply on the last one :)
ill reply on the last one :)
no, and does it matter? :)
like i said we are two people :P and we like fish :P
feeling self conscious is totally normal! every single girl has insecurities, even models. now, you cant say other girls arent pretty, i know all of those girls and they are absolutely gorgeous. but so are YOU. just because girls are skinny doesnt mean that their prettier than you. and you dont know if guys like you. they dont necessarily come out with it. so dont put your self down and have confidence guys like that ;) but not too much that you seem cocky. always be smiling and never seem depressed or sad, guys honestly dont want to know about all of that. it makes you look sad and boring and no guy wants that. they like fun bubbly girls and im not asking you to change yourself for this guy but just let them see that side of you :)
ive had this problem before and its completely okay. first of all, feeling different isnt a bad thing its really good. :)
if you want to loose weight, your going to have to work at it. your bellys not going to shrink its self ;)
try to work out everyday, maybe after school in the gym with a group of friends? that should keep you motivated. its important to have an incentive so maybe every week after working out for everyday that week you can maybe buy yourself something small but new that youve wanted.
another thing thats really important is diet. you HAVE to eat healthy otherwise screw the exercising. try not to eat any candy or sweet things or any fried things. tell your family that your trying to loose wait so they can help you getting rid of the foods you dont want.
tell me how it works out in 2-3 months :) hope this helped :)
yes. never ask a girl out on bbm or chat :)
thank you for asking! :)
people ask us questions, and we answer nothing more. im sorry if you feel like that :)
yes! this is cheating and you should tell the guy. is your best friend a guy too? hiding it from him will do nothing because he will find out, he will be mad and it will end badly.
ok first of all, interfering will just make him hate you. i know it s*cks when someone you like is in a relationship with someone else, but dont hate on the girl, its not her fault. just let it be. find someone who is not dating, he may be the one. getting mad about it wont help. if they do break up, dont be his rebound. make sure he comes to YOU. you shouldn\'t obsess over a guy who likes someone else, you come first. \"Crying over a guy? Nah, pick your head up princess. Your tiara is falling.\" :)
thats just how guys are. To many of them, flirting isn't a big deal. Maybe he likes you, but hes too shy to admit it. if he flirts with other girls too, forget about him. i know it may be hard, because he seems so sweet, but if he likes you, he should only flirt with YOU. hes obviously not worth it. stay strong<3
you should have self confidence because you are amazing and gorgeous and someday someone is going to find you and like you for who you are. and if the guys are only obsessed with those girls, there not worth your time and effort. yes they are amazing gorgeous girls, but that doesnt mean you arent either right? so try to forget about the guys, just enjoy life as it is. okay? :) stay strong gorgeous <3
look this is an advice column, please no more questions about being ***** or your boyfriends jinging your as*.
first of all, they are going to find out in the end. so might as well tell them now. your parents are not stupid, there not going to think that your just getting fatter. what grade are you in? this will help us give advice to you. and if your pregnant you need to stop and think about priorities here.
we did :)
okay one, stop having se* if you think your going to get pregnant, two throwing up all over the place might just mean your sick :) please be safe, and tell your parents what you think.
stop eating crabs :D
firstly i want to congratulate you for not picking a side and giving into peer pressure. second of all i want to thank you for giving each of these people in the group of four the benefit of the doubt. so good job. Now i want to congratulate these three girls for never talking about the one girl, as we know from experience its very hard. in a situation when it is three against one the one girl who we will now call joey will jump to talking about these three girls behind their back as a DEFENSE MECHANISM. These three girls have each other so they don't feel the need to do that. But if it was switched around for those three girls and at one point each of them became joey, do you think they would do the same? Or would they do the honorable thing and say again, life goes on? THAT is your answer. And another thing, why is it nesscary to pick sides. If no one want to listen to joey talk about those three girls then tell her that! In any position it is NEVER fair for someone to be talked about without having the chance to defend themselves. and for this joey, she is going to learn eventually that hating and being bitter isn't worth another second of her time. she needs to learn to move on, and maybe just maybe you can help her with that! be the change this girl needs to see, be the ear they all need to listen, and be the hope. that they all need to believe in :)
i'll reply on the last one :)
i'll reply on the last one :)
i'll reply on the last one :)
thank you so much :) <3
people do this to try to make themselves feel better. they think after a while they are being compared and it hurts when you dont win. so their subconsiouc wants revenge. and somehow our mind goes directly to talking behind peoples backs, telling a different version of a story. ik its wrong but its peoples defense mechanism. and it s*cks. im so sorry if that has been happening to you.
you realize that the people who send their problems to us know that they are sending their problems to us. :)
so shut up and let them do what they want. if you dont want to, leave us alone.
also, if they know about the advice, they wouldnt ask for it genius. ;)
thank you so so so much, but we stay anonymous so all people feel comfortable telling us anything and we can help them :) it is a win win, because you get advice and we get to help. thank you so much again. :D
first of all, you need to go and tell someone. secondly, your friends never turned against, they were never your friends in the first place because if they were they wouldnt have left you especially when you are being bullied. i understand that when your being bullied you dont want to be a tattletale but you are being hurt not only emotionally but physically as well. please tell someone. :)
advice only please ;)
that is completely and undeniably untrue. you. are. not. a. loser. and we are so sick of hearing people think like that. the only reason why there would be a popular group is if you call them that. dont let people believe they are better than you. be yourself and i promise you that you are going to get so much farther that spending the rest of your life trying to be someone else.
tell him how you really feel, it works everytime ;)
thats all a lie. beauty isnt natural and for the people who get beauty naturally well they are the luckiest people in the world. but i will tell you what is true. beauty isn\'t a necessity. you can have self confidence without big boo*s a flat stomach and perfect hair. and one day that special someone is going to come around and tell you how beautiful you really are. :) beauty isnt worth putting your life on the life i promise. <3
please advice only, and we are in the higher grades of middle school.
please tell someone. at least your parents. telling your parents will give your brother the punishment he needs for doing that but it wont get him into major trouble. this is called se*ual abuse. so please tell someone or go get help. of you dont want to talk to your parents about it, or your uncomfortable talk to your brother or any other siblings you may have. maybe close relatives? i dont want anything to happen to you. everything will turn out okay. :)
ill reply in the next one. :)
the first thing to getting better is understanding the problem. and im so proud of you for knowing that you have to stop. now you have to cut yourself off from alcohol and tell your parents. therapy and counseling is not something to be scared or ashamed of. no one has to know. everything is going to be okay, and im so proud of you for tell someone.
http://www.thesite.org/drinkanddrugs/drinking/problems/overcomingadrinkproblem
okay im really happy you told someone about this. and the first thing you need to do is tell your parents. cutting is not the answer it never is, okay? <3 go to a therapist and dont be ashamed of this. everything is going to be okay your worth it. :)
http://zenhabits.net/6-practical-and-powerful-ways-to-overcome-depression/
thank you :)