thenji smelane
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if u cud b a guy 4 a day.. Wat wud u do?
Lol... I'd... I'd be the kinda man I picture maslf having *tltltltlt*... Dat wuld be fun yoh! Lol. . .
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whatz yo greatest fear?
gvin up alot in my lyf or mayb even ma lyf itself 4 sm1 who wont realise that at the end... N God has to go thru ths eryday hey...
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What music do u listen too? Checkmate
Often gospel... Got a few ppl r personally like cece n bebe, donnie, yolanda...bt i listen to soul too...such as adele, alicia keys, india arie, erykah badu, lauryn hill...male artists has jo be james blunt n john legend. . .
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uve chngd. U usd 2 b so swt, now ur mean.
Have I? I suppose it's all because of the people I happen to spend my time with lately. They made me realise that I culd neva impres evry1 al at once. So one of these days Im only living to impres God. And I stand up 4 wat I blv in hey, suppose dats why u thnk Im mean...bt its k, I understand. Its jst yo own opinion. N i also cnt hlp it, i find it impossble to turn ma head arwnd 4 evry guy dat cals ma name n makin frnds with ppl who seem to talk b4 they thnk. Dnt hold it against me, im jst another human who happns to have a standard...cnt afford to go any lower...
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Whats the worst thing a person that has ever told you?
that im too beautiful to be smart... *rolin eyes* like beautiful ppl dnt have brains...mxm... Some of us were blessd with both brains n beauty...
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If your pastor ask you to go on a date with him, would you accept?
My pastor is a decent man of God who is happily married. He is like a father to, so I don't know what ur talking about... Unles if u were talking about a dif kinda date.
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Banana o apple? Mayonnays o tomato source? Jam or peanut butter?
banana, lol. . . Tomato source *roling isngisi* peanut butter...
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Who's your crush?
crsh is a wara wara wat word, i thnk of it as jst appreciating God's creation *winx*. . .
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Wat do u think of Julius Malema?
Do I even think of Him??? I got better things to think about... He ain't dumb, he's just a plain bore...
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Wat wuld u consider if u were 2 date a less privged man
I wudnt know hey. But i do appreciate hustlers, even em guys who sell veggies by em street corners... Ive neva been in dat kinda situation b4...
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Haibo! Wats wrong with *ex before marriage????!!!
Ay bra. . . I'm so not gonna go through this again. Apart from being wrong nje, why can't we be decent and respect it? It's a gift 4rm God 4 mrried people. Let's leave it to the married until we married if we ever do get married. No1 wants left ovas, so lets stay clean... *winx*
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Bathi uzenza umlungu omnyama! Lol
wena uthini uma 'bathi'? *smiles* not that i mind... *winx*
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How gud r u in bed?
Give me a call afta ma honeymoon and il let u know. . .
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Umuhle!
Thanx, it takes umuhlezi to c anatha muhlezi.
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I hear that there is an addition in your fam, is it true?
Hehe. . .news travel so fast. Luckli it is true. Was born last week and it's a baby girl that wont stop eating!
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did ur ex satisfy u??coz 4rm wt ive heard datz reazin 4 ur brk up
Haha... Not true.
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Tel me more about urself!!!
Read my profile *winx*
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Wit wat wuld u symbolise a soul?
Wind. . .its so free spirited.
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Wat level of education do u have?
hahaha...il rather tell u when im done!
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If given a choice, which animal wuld u choose 2 be?
I would be an eagle! I love the character trails of an eagle! *smiles al over*
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WHY DID U BRAK UP WIT UR ex?
Lol...oh gosh... We had some differences, and they forced us to brk up...
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What do you think is missing with the generation of today,speicifically the youth?
I mean, we can't blame the whole youth 4 the ignorance of others. I think they are in the right direct, excpt a few... I mean, they pursue their careers in being doctors, engeneers and so forth... Those who make mistakes along the way, let them learm from them, go bek to skul n do what needs to be dne. Drugs and pregnancies due to carelessness, that I'd like to believe we are working on it...but ey, one of these days we attend funerals of young people dying of aids where as in bek in the days it were weddings that were attended. But this youth got al the knowledge, they are being taught and told the truth...its jst them who choose to be ignorant...so 4 anything that goes wrng, they got nobody to blame but themselves. Ey, kodwa maye bayawathanda amaparty!! Angeke abayise nandawo empilweni!
a friend
Pal. . .hau, how can such a small word be so big??! Lol... Ey, i really don't know man. But I do know that Jesus is a true friend coz He never lives us, never get tired of our complaining, our mourning, He never talks behind our bcks, He keeps our secrets, He doesn't judge us, never gets jealous when we buy new gudgets, He never plots evil or bad 4 us, He never wears a fake smile, He is honest, He never drains us, brk us down. . . He is smart and wise... And I've never met any other person like that. Since Jesus is my best buddy, thats ma defination of a true friend. . .
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Wat do u need in a true pal
What's a pal?
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Your dream man?
Haha. . . What bwt hm? Lol... Sings like Donnie McClurkin, personality like Dave van Vuuren, plays guitar like James Blunt, with an attitude like pastor Chris, dresses like Kanye West, tall, dark, n bald hair like Mr. Kenny (the pro-skateboarder) ...well, I know he doesn't exist coz I only saw him in my dreams... Lol...infact, in my dreams he was better than them. Lol. . .
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Whats yo def of a beautiful woman?
Couldn't u ask me bwt a hndsme man? Anywhu, I love India Arie. She sings " i am not my hair, i am not my skin. I am the soul that lives within me"... U determine a beautiful woman by her soul... Esther and Ruth (4rm the Bible) are a good example.
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usayithanda i ex yakho? u know who im talking about
Wonder why ud bother to know, but yeh. I stil do love him. Don't u know that a heart that truly loves wil neva stop loving what it 1nce loved? Haha, been single for a while now though and its ok *winx
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Favourite dish?
Praws, lazagnia, milktart, milkshake, pap n milk... I just love delicious food!
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D u stil enjoy watching p*rn movies?
I hope u ain't dumb as your question and I hope there ain't a lot of people with the same mentality as yours or our nation is doomed.
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If u culd change anythng abt urslf, wat wuld it be?
Get rid of ths weave n stay with my natural hair, which ima do very soon.
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Wat is so ugly abt south africa?
Did i eva say there is anythng ugly bwt S.A? Bt i do pray though that God will reveal Himself to the youth that uses any form of drugs, aborting, n that they wuld c the gud in education.
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Wat makes u worry?
Ey worrying is smthng els. I ratha get pissd of or sad... I consider worrying as a sin. It sumhow gves the idea that 1 doesn't trust God enuf. I dnt do thngs that i find no necessity in doing them. I dnt pt pressure on maslf wen i dnt want to, not anymore. I listen to the voice of God ratha than people. I dnt have it in me to liv my lyf to impres othaz bt God. I was neva lyk ths, i jst grew into it. It came handy wit alot of readin n seekin wisdom. Thse r the reasons why i stoppd worryin coz the reason why we even worry its bcz we kip on thnking of the worst that culd happn n without realisin it, we attrct thse thngs. I let lyf unfold itself as i do ma part, whch is to live whle i stil can...
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Wat do u find beautiful abt ppl?
They are God's creations, even if sumtimes their deeds ain't as beautiful they r, i stil find it in me to be kind to al coz i ain't even perfect myslf. Hence, sumtimes i force maslf to love so its a must that i must find the gud in others...
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WHY DA MARRAGE HURTZ?
Im not married, why wuld u ask me? Lol...
This is my own opinion. There are alot of these that hurt us, so dnt jst thnk of marriage as a thng of hurt... At sum point, love does hurt, lost of sm1 does hurt, a r.shp thats fallin apart does hurt, even cutting yo finger wen slicin bread does hurt...
At sme stage we al gada face pain n it hurts. 4 othaz it hurts more than 4 othaz.
But as 4 marriage, why do those two people even decide to get mrrd 4rm the 1st plce? Is it coz of finacial reasons? Forcd by parents coz u getin old n time aint waitin 4 u? Is it coz yal had been datin 4 6yrz? Lustful desires? Wat? People gada understand that mrriage aint magic, if yo gal continousli cheatd on u b4 yal got mrrd wat makes u thnk she wudnt do it again? And another common mistake that ppl make is that they xpct their happines to be creatd by their spouses. As much as yal cme 2getha to be one in flesh n u even feel it wen yal finali get to yo hunimoon n yo husbnd makes it thru u n u cn even feel it in yo stmch , it doesnt mean that u no lngr hav yo own lyf. Y stop havin a gals' nyt awt 4 1nce in a whle? Ths is vry cmmom with women. Let hm watch socca with hs frnds... Trust! Trust! Trust! I knw it aint easy, bt its possible. Al mrriages n r.shpz hav tough times, bt if thr is lov then it cn al be ova come! Mwah
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Wat comes 2 ur mind 1st wen u hear abt da word reality?
Wat reality? That u grew up without yo fatha? That yo r.shp is on the edge of a brk up? That yo husbnd is cheatin on u? That u failed matric? That u ain't working? That u cudn't get a busary? That u 16 and u pregnant? That yo ex bf won't buy milk 4 yo baby or even cme visit the baby whle he was the one who told u straight up in yo fyc with a passion that he lovs u as he laid u on hs bed? That u 33 and havnt accomplshd al the thngs u wantd to accomplsh by the time u turn 30? Look, if Moses culd open the red sea leavin a dry grwnd, if a yung shephard boy culd kil a bg gaint with 1 lil tiny stone, 3 men who were put in a burning furnace that was 7 times strnga than usual bt neva died, instead endd up being kings, n a physicali blind man culd write the book of Revelation 4rm start to end then who cares wat reality has to offer us wen God is 4 us?
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Wat is da title of da book that u love nd y do u luv it?
I got alot of books that i love 4rm realistic fictions, books bwt money, to devotional, motivational, inspiring, mind openin books. But my personal favourite is \'The Secret\'... It compltly changed the way i thnk. It talks about the law of attraction. Oprah didn\'t rili agree with the do***entary movie of ths book. She thnks that it aint jst the law of attraction on its own that creates daily events, but i have to say, i gve that book 5 stars. U shud read it too. . .
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Who is da relevent person in our tym nd why?
We all do have a connection/bearing at the matter on hand...so i say everyone who had ever lived, is living, will live...all are relevant coz evrythng happns 4 a reason. We nid one anatha, 4rm the woman who sells bananas at the street corner to the upgraderz of technology n THOSE s*ckERS OF TAX
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Whn ws da laste tyt u ksd sm1?
Yesterday, two people infact. Jst gada lovin kissing *mwah!*...oh dat was Sibahle_some chck i rili adore_ n lil cousin K.g. *winx*
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When was da lst time a hot dude askd u out?
Why on earth wuld I wana kip such records? Anywhu, it always feels gud rejectin such a guy n i do that ALL THE TIME. . .
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are u happy with your life right now?
Duh...ain't it weird that I'm an open book yet my life is so private? *winx*... I love it. Love ma skul lyf, maslf n evryone! Seldom lyf of a blck chick, so unexpctd! *winx*
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Chicken or beef?
chicken! *smiles*
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What's tha meaning of ya name
Thenjiwe, uhm...it means trustworthy, trusted...yeh *winx*
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what makes you cry and what makes u smile?
it depends. . . I do cry when im hapi, when im sad. . . Smiling. . .that i do al the tym!
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Wat shoe size do u wear?
hahaha...5...pretty normal 4 a chick!
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Wat u luk 4 in a dude?
*deep thoughts* just be himself and born again Christian then we wil be sorted! Bt for now i ain't lookin hey! Lol. . .*winx
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Y dd da chckn cros da rwd?
to get to the otha syd!! Lol
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Do you club or party?
*yawing*...hope that answered u!
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U said u broke up with your ex, why do I stil see u hanging around with him????
who is this? Lol...yeh we did, ages ago!! I dnt hate on him phela lol...he ain't ma enemy. We got an unfinishd busines mina naye lol...bt i prmc u hey, we aint datin n ain't gonna go bek to it. I'm kwl with datin 4 now! N stop being personal lol. . . .
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Are you into to me?
wahahaha, who are u? Ofcoz i am into u! *grin*...in a Godly way! *winx n smile*
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Have you ever proposed a guy before? If you did how did you react&feel the time you're propose
hahahaha...y hide the way u feel?
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Do you watch COOL CATs on ETV? (•_~)
lol. . .not anymore!! I dnt watch a lot of t.v anymore...
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R u afraid of da dark?
funny enuf, wen im indoorz...yeh it does get freaky. Bt awtdoorz, nah i aint.
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Do you ever think of getting married someday?
I'm a gal and sure have thought bwt it... If it's God's wil then it wil happen...
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So wht if da guy has 2 chldrn 4rm outsid,wuld u stil go out wth da guy?
mmmh... There are usually conflicts when out-side children are involved... But there always seem to be a factor that cn brk dat reality if not illusion... *winx* that's ma answer...
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Joseph,husband of mary..the virgin,was a decendant of abraham.... Why is Jesus called a descendant of abraham if Joseph isn't his biological father
regardles of anything, we are all Abraham's seed...
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There is no difference between *ex b4 marriage and adultry. My opinion.
Sweet, we all have our own opinions and Im glad u also have yoz *smiles*
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Wht typ of a guy wuld u lyk 2 b wth in future?
Uhm... If he culd be loving, caring & share the chemistry...then I'm sure we culd look beyond our flaws and help each other grow in anyway possible. It culd be spiritually, financially, mentaly... As long as I benefit 4rm hm and he benefits 4rm me *winx...
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what 2 do if gf isnt read for *ex
I'm a gal maslf and I'd advice u not to force it on her. The most lame line ive ever heard 4rm a guy is " im a guy and I have needs"...truth is that any other guy whoz a virgin at age 23 goes thru the same homonial process as a guy who started engagin is *ex at age 15. The dif between them is that the other one has got self-control and the other doesn't. So be a real, and dnt force it on her. An r.ship ain't jst bwt *ex. There are a lot of other thngs that culd bring u closer 2gether without havin to lay her in bed. There is sure a reason why she aint ready. It culd be bcoz of morals and values, considering the awtcomes and results of havin *ex out of wordlock... Gve her that respect, that security that u aint in the r.shp 4 the wr0ng reasons n i prmc u, she'l appreciate u even more.
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Is polygamy really prohibited in the bible?.
Eph. 5:31 and Matt 19:4-6 talk bwt a man leavin hs parents and be united with hs wife, NOT WIVES.
Uhm...in the early yrz it seemed to be committed a lot but by Christ's time it was not as big... King David did it and a lot otherz... But just bcoz its in the Bible it doesn't mean that God approved of it. It is not an endorsement by God... Good and bad behaviour of people was written bwt in the Bible...even the adultery committed by king David...
Jah...thats ma own opinion! *winx
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What's d deference between *ex be4 marriage nd committing adultery?
*ex be4 marriage is fonication. Adultery is when ur married and sleep with someone else out-side the marriage...
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if u wer told u wer gohn to die in da next 2hourz ,wats da mst spontenious thn ud do
dnt knw bwt spontenious bt id preach the gospel n then smile *smiles
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If u wer 2 marry a celeb, whu will it b?
i dnt thnk i wuld wana marry a celeb... *thinking*
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Why do people marry den divorce aftr?
Uhm...my own opinion neh... 1st thngs 1st... Why do those two individuals even marry at the 1st place? What culd be the reasons? Finacial reasons? Prepared marriages? Lust reasons? Again...it culd be because its not the person whom God has in mind 4 u. But hey, its fate that bring people together...and sometimes somethings don't work out coz they were neva meant to be... Oh, and again sometimes people jst aint patient n aint wilin to accpt certain thngs bwt their partners n c divorce as the way out. Hence God shuld be the center of al thngs... There are also technical reasons y people divorce... Lack of communication and so forth... Love on its own wont keep an r.shp or mrrg goin... There nids to be chemistry and more
Whn hav u become da child of God? Or how long now? Inno18
*smiles*...interestin question. I gave my life to God in 2007 bt didn't engage to it til 2008... It was at some revival n the msg that was preached about touched my heart. Then after that an alter call was called. I did the prayer of confession and my life was neva the same again.
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Y ar politicians rich n being cald fat cat
lol... I dnt know.
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Does water have taste
no, its tasteles *grin*... Mmmhh, cme to thnk of it. I shud drink more of it...
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What makes u angry n hw passd dt
i kinda dnt get the 2nd part of yo question... But ey... It depends, but i hardly ever get angry n i get passd it faster than u culd ever thnk. I try not to 'let the sun go down on me'
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Wat wuld u do or say, if u c a homeless person stealing a bread 4rm a shop?
to be honest, i know it wuldnt be the best thng to do...bt being who i am, i wudnt do anythng. Id jst ignore dat person...
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whats yo take on having *ex before marriage?
UNACCEPTABLE! *winx*
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How wuld u defind hate?
its resentment over another person. Its foolish n a burden. Y not 4gve sm1 and move on with yo lyf? It cn rob u of yo hapines without even realisin it, i tel u!
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Which planet was created 1st?
I don't do Geography lol... *grin*
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Well,are you going to school tomorrow?
Lmao, is this a tricky question?
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Wts ur take on Christianity en datin?
I knw d bible doesn't prohibit it bt it clearly says bad company deceive great morals!!!!
Christianity is a lifestyle of faith, believing that we were bought with the blood of Jesus and our sins are forgiven. Dating ain't wrong, but the motives behind doing it culd be wrong. Yes, bd company does deceive great morals. Hence dat is why it is better to date a born again when ur born again...
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do yo parents knw dat ur datin?
am i even datin? Lol
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wuld u date yo ey again?
i thnk i wud. . .
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whats ur worse and most funny nickname u ever had?
'my ding' whch means 'my thng' rili neva andastood y they even cald me dat! Lol
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Hav u eva pretended 2 b a friend 2 sumbdy u dnt lyk?
lol...wahahaha...no, i neva pretend to be a friend to any1. Sum people jst tend to thnk that im their frnd wen im not. N thr isnt a person i dnt lyk, culd jst be thngs that i dnt lyk bwt them. . .
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What's the one rumour you've heard about you that is not true?
that im a snob
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Who are you dating currently
no one lol...
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Describe yourself in 3 words?
beautiful, wise, kind