Nellie
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Have you ever been in a situation where you went someplace with your parents for a few hours and was annoyed because the place had no bathrooms?
I mean what place doesn’t have bathrooms
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If he was single would you hook up with liam ford
We don’t know each other personally
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do you ever wish your baby had a different father
If he had a different father he would be a different baby so not necessarily just wish the father would’ve manned up
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You’re so pretty ♥️ but you look so unapproachable , if i saw you somewhere i’d be scared to say hi lol
Thank you so much 💘 lmao I feel like I’m pretty nice don’t be scared 🥺
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what do you love most about your son?🌈
I love absolutely everything about him but the way he looks at me melts my heart ❣️.
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You are real $exy love your lips looks good
Thanks 🥴
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Your really stunning, may I dm you? ❤️
Thank you 💘. Sure x
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what is your sisters insta?
Christelle.botes
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How is your relationship with Gareth .
Are you guys still close or just mutual
We aren’t close , barely talk.
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Does gareth's parents know about Caden?
Yes they do
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Did you ever smoke of your sisters weed ?
I don’t smoke.
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Do you still love Gareth and do you see yourself dating him in the future?
I don’t see myself ever dating him again
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Hypothetically, what will you do if your parents don't like the guy whom you wanna marry?
Last time I checked it’s me marrying him ??♀️. All depending on the reason they don’t like him tho
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No hate or anything, why in ur highlights is there one taht still says ''don't bother Gareth with ur are u dating questions'' if u are not with him?
That was from when we were dating , I like that video tho so just enjoy and move on
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Do u think u and gareth will get back together?
I don’t want to be with him ever again x
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Did you cry when you found out?
I cried a lot yes
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Who was the very first person that you told?
Cayleigh ❤️.
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R u and Gareth still a thing x
Never again x
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Got any BJ tips for me to use on my bf?
He’s probably a cheater , bite it off
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How come G hasn't posted about his cute baby yet
Because it’s my baby
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Do you love gareth
I love him for giving me my baby and that’s about it
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are you bi?
Unfortunately not
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You still inlove with Gareth ?
I am not
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Is Gareth apart of the picture?
No he isn’t
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Do you still have your nose ring in
I have no piercings atm
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Did you lose your virginity to Gareth
Yes
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What will you do if you're stuck in an elevator with a stranger and he starts removing his pants?
I wouldn’t get in with someone I don’t know , but I mean if he’s just removing his pants let the man live his life
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How are you and Gareth?
We’re fine.
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Why do you push people away that only try and be nice and do good?
I don’t.
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Don't you feel awkward having a coloured baby? Especially if you had to be in a relationship with someone else and have a coloured child?
The colour of my child does not matter to me. If I’m in a relationship with someone and they can’t accept my baby being coloured or accept him in general I’d definitely not be in that relationship anymore. I don’t feel awkward having a baby I don’t feel embarrassed of him or his colour. It’s 2019 seriously get over it. I find this question pretty disgusting and I truly hope you accept your children one day no matter how they look .
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How much time do you get to sleep with the baby
I sleep in between morning feeds which are at 1 , 3 and 6 and he wakes up around 8 but sometimes my mom and sister takes him then to give me time to sleep.
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has gareth met caden
Yes he has.
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Do you know which position you were having $ex in when you fell pregnant?
Does it matter?
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How many times did you and Gareth fck before you fell pregnant?
How’s it any of your business?
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Is Gareth allowed to see the baby
I’m not keeping him away ??♀️
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Why don’t you like gareths mom ? Cayden is so cute ❤️
Meet her and you’ll know .
Caden* and thank you so much ❤️x
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Would you stay with a guy who gives you false hopes, says I love you or be with a guy who has been with many girls in the past?
If he’s been with many girls but ready to settle down with you and only you then that guy , nobody should be with someone who gives them false anything. Be with the guy that treats you right and makes you happy
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how long do you wanna wait before your next child
4 years x
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Does it hurt or bleed alot when u break ur v card
If you’re comfortable and taking your time it’s really not as bad as you think.
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I really do need advice nellie . Like , I've always thought about loosing my v card you know , but would you think it's the right thing to do at the age of 15 - 16 . Or do you personally think it's up to me to make the decision . Sorry if it's really awkward
It’s seriously up to you , my virginity was also I big deal to me but at the end of the day $ex is part of life and losing your virginity is bound to happen , if you feel like you’re ready go ahead and do it with someone you trust and feel safe with , I say don’t do it if you feel like you have to or if you feel forced or just to get it over and done with .. it’s something you’re always gonna remember. So if you feel like you want to lose your virginity at 15 it’s totally fine it’s no different than losing your virginity at 20 ?.
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When u were about 14 going onto 15 did u ever think teen pregnancy would be a possibility for u
Thought wasn’t even At the back of my mind .
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Why do you say your v***** will never be the same ?
The place where they cut is completely numb and it’s a pretty weird feeling.
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You said your "v***** will never be the same". Thought you had a c-section ?
I did have a c section, I got cut very very low tho so basically on my v*****.
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Do u for caden sake want Gareth in ur/his life,to have a father figure and do on, or does Gareth do more harm than good
Caden seriously doesn’t need a dad.
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How has your body changed since the baby? And how are you coping ?
My v***** will never be the same ?.
I still feel very weird without my big tummy not used to being this skinny again .. pretty much everything went back to normal just w some stretch marks , Everything’s all good tho just tired ??.
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why aren't you and g together anymore?
I refuse to be with someone like that
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How would u recommend a 14y/o turning 15 in 3 months to tell their parents they pregnant, when there parents are really strict and don't wanna dissapoint them? ?
Either way it’s probably gonna disappoint them just because “you have your whole life in front of you” so I suggest just being straight up and not stress about it because you’re just putting yourself through it twice .. they love you and they’ll get over it once the baby is born maybe even before then. Just take responsibility for your actions , I strongly doubt they’ll kick their pregnant daughter out ??. Just stay strong and tell them straight up (maybe take a pregnancy test and just give that to them if you’re too scared to verbally say anything x)
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Do u think ur mom was just a little disappointed, sad bout the situation at first
Of course this isn’t what she planned for my future because it’s much harder doing things when you have a baby , but having a baby doesn’t mean your life is over .. just opens new doors to achieve different things. So maybe she was a little disappointed but she’s head over heels in love with my baby boy and doesn’t treat me like a disappointment so it’s all okay.
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Did u have to grow/mature faster after caden
Definitely.
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r you still doing school? homeschool or so? just curious ??
Yes , I’m homeschooled.
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How many kids u want?
Definitely one or two more.
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How are you balancing your school life, social life and being a mom at the same time?
Im homeschooled so I can do school anytime I get free time during the day , really not interested in social life at the moment .. so basically it’s only mommy duties and school I have to worry about.
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Wasn't it sore when you broke your virginity nells ! Did you bleed ?
Don’t see how this has any relevance in your life ?
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Where did you have your baby
louis leipoldt hospital
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Did you guys use any condoms
I feel like you know the answer to this one x
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Do you feel happy about being a teenage mommy ! So proud of you !
I feel happy about being a mom teen or not ❣️ Thank you.
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Is Caylee / cayleigh - your best friend !!
Is she your son's God mother
My mom is his godmother.
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How did you tell your baby daddy that your pregnant babes
I just told him .
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How did your father feel about you being pregnant
I don’t have a dad x
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We're you not scared about telling Gareth and your parents that your pregnant
He’s Gareths baby so no I wasn’t scared at all.
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Weren't the nurses schocked to see a young girl pregnant ? How'd you deal with it . Your so strong. ❤️
They actually handled me like every other patient, they said they see tons of younger patients every day. They didn’t make me feel uncomfortable or awkward I was just another patient. Things were handled very professionally , I absolutely loved going to my doctor appointments and the nurses after birth were so nice ❤️❤️❤️.
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How’s your social life since you have a baby?
My social life is on hold all I’m concentrating on and all thats important is my baby x
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What did G have to say about it?
Say about what
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Congratulations on your beautiful boy ❤️ But we’re all in suspense, who’s the dad!?
Thank you so much ?.
Gareth Julius x
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Do you wanna connect with other young mommys? (Even if we not as cool as you ) xx
Definitely ?.
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When did you fall pregnant?
May 2018 ?
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Did you use ur parents' medical aid for alles or go to a government hospital
yes I used medical aid so it was a private hospital
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How are you and your niggr going to afford this Kid ? ?
We’re doing perfectly fine x
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You need Jesus in your life you uncultured swine
Clearly I have Jesus, he gave me a beautiful baby ?
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You sinner
Oh yes A+ for you this is exactly what god would’ve wanted you to tell me because you’re so holy right
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Gareth did the alphabet on my ***** ? he told me it’s the best ***** his ever had , oof sorry babe ?
Didn’t make him *** so tell me how it’s the best ??
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What's your Insta?
Nellie_botes .
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Hi nells❤, just wanted to ask is/waa your mom supportive about your pregnancy, btw you are an amazing person with a beautiful mind and soul❤
Thank you so much ❤️.
Yes from the moment she found out till now she’s been my biggest supporter.
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No hate, just curious ? How many times did you have $ex to get pregnant
I was just having $ex and obviously that led to pregnancy but we weren’t trying for a baby .
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you don't know me at all , i just wanna say you are on of the strongest people I've ever seen in my entire life and congratulations , you deserve the happiness
This means a lot ? thank you so much !
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What were your labor and birth complications? Im a young mom too, gave birth last year and it was so hard I hated it
I felt them cutting me and because my body is so small when they tore me open to take Caden out it felt like they were lifting my whole body by that piece of skin it was painful and uncomfortable. Congratulations on your baby ?.
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What was your birth plan in the beginning? Like did you want a med free birth, waterbith, home, hospital etc
I wanted a c section w a spinal block (spinal block numbs your lower body ) so that I’m awake and can see my baby immediately , but my body couldn’t handle it , the pressure and pulling was too much and I was feeling pain .. which I wasn’t supposed to so I started freaking out and they injected me and put me to sleep .
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Do you breastfeed mama?
I was breastfeeding but My milk wasn’t strong enough and he’s a very hungry baby so we switched to formula in the second week ?.
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When did you fall pregnant??
I fell pregnant in May 2018 .
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Howcome you state you'd do it over 100 times? Was this planned in any way? Like obvs you knew there was a risk not using contraceptives and all. Was it a matter of, 'if it happens, it happens' ?
If it happens it happens and it did happen so it was meant to be. Pregnancy was difficult and so was giving birth , physically and emotionally very draining but at the end of it I got a beautiful little baby boy so it’s all worth it that’s what I meant about doing everything over , even tho it was hard I’ll do it again just to have my baby. He wasn’t planned but he definitely wasn’t unwanted.
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What was your mother’s reaction ,explain in full please
The moment she found out , she cried for a few seconds because of shock and after that we went baby shopping.. she was and still is really supportive.
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Sorry to message if it’s personal just curious, was giveing birth very painful , how did your mom react when you told her you were pregnant
I had complications with my birth experience (c section) so it was painful and really uncomfortable they ended up putting me to sleep during Labour .
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If I may ask did you have $ex a lot to fall pregnant or only 3 times and was it a accident
It wasn’t a planned pregnancy.
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How is Gareth about you keeping your baby ?
It’s our baby so I think he’s perfectly fine with us keeping him.
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Is Gareth supportive over the preganacy?
I already gave birth x
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how did you hide your pregnancy?
I didn’t hide my pregnancy? I just didn’t post my pregnant stomach, read the caption
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Who’s the father?
Gareth obviously
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Use a condom, otherwise u wouldn't be here 16 and pregs
I’m not pregnant?? And I totally think it’s my own choice if I wanna have $ex without a condom ? It’s truly my life isn’t it ? Why do you feel so entitled to have a say about my life ?
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are you and cayleigh still friends?
Yes
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Why would i be scared i told you my name i was straight up with you. I just dont want to communicate with you because im not your friend? So i dont want or need your number
Not my friend yet you wanted to be disrespectful as fck and be in my business? Am I your friend ? Not a fck .. you hid behind a fake account and that’s that ??♀️
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The blehhh account is me
You seem scared ?
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Uncomfortably tall huh, what’s that like 152cm?
5’6
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I dmed you about your secret
No you didn’t
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Oh my gaaawd you’re stunning, like I’ve never seen such beauty before
So sweet ☹️☹️?
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I’m very sorry if any guy is being toxic or pervy in your life. I promise you we aren’t all like that?✨
Got rid of all toxic people ? .
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How tall do you like guys to be
Doesn’t matter to me
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Oh really ??exactly how tall
Like uncomfortably tall