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Oi , don't think for 1 second that whatever these hater(s) say is true bc you are you and thats the best you that you can ever be. So be yourself and just shine everyday bc you have the right ?
This is so sweet, thank you so much. People like you inspire me to keep moving forward and to be open and proud. ?
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s*cks that even tho u think ur a dude, every cell in ur body still has female chromosomes. Feel bad for you, the desease u are suffering is horrible
Look, buddy, I don’t care enough to educate an ignorant A$$hole. First of all, you can’t even spell/use proper grammar, so that alone tells me quite a bit about your IQ. Second of all, if you do your research properly, you’ll find a ton of information backing and supporting transgender people based on scientific research.
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Wanna have a some? Would be amazing with 2 lesbos
Real mature, dude. Grow up and educate yourself. Also, feel free to insult me, but leave my girlfriend out of it.
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Who are you dating?
Go check the tag on my last post. I’m dating the most amazing girl I’ve ever met.
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Gross af
Hey, to each his own. ??♂️
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Taken?
Taken and smitten, bruh.
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Sal jy saam met my gaan vir my 1ste tattoo??
Fok ja! Dit sal ‘n eer wees om deel te wees van daardie ervaring ? message my met die details en ek’s daar ??
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What you up to?
At this exact moment, I’m fixing up an old table.
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feed ??? Mia.aaaa
Says the queen of aesthetics though ???
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fck me please
I’m going to have to decline the offer, since I’m happily taken.
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Tbh you look like a really good friend to have like fr you look really cool to hang with
That’s really nice of you! Thank you for making me smile, anon. I’m always willing to give any friendship a try though, so feel free to DM me. ?
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What physical feature do you like most about yourself?
I’ll go with my hair or eyes.
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Trust me I know you ? You hurt me so hope you are happy
Nah fam, only like 2 people really know me. Raak asseblief vir my rustig.
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whats the best feelling in the world
Getting a tattoo.
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I'm sorry that I left you but being friends with you kinda hurt me because we could never be something more I hope you understand xxx D
I probably would have left anyway. It was inevitable. You saved yourself.
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I like your previouse answer but you aint loyal nor trustworthy?? sad
I beg to differ. I’d like to believe that I’m one of the most loyal people in this town. Funny of you to have that opinion though, since you probably don’t even know me.
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What kind of ppl do u like the most????
Open-minded, loyal, trustworthy and respectful people.
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what thinng got u happy recently??
My friends and peers on here being so accepting of my identity.
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What saying/phrase are you absolutely tired of hearing?
“You’re going to regret your tattoos.”
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whats that 1 habit or action towards others u end up having to b sorry for bcs u cnt help it
I can be a bit of an A$$hole when things are rough.
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biggest fear?
I fear being fearful.
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The funniest/weirdest habit you have is??
Sleeping with my jeans on.
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Latest regrets?
Missed opportunities.
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Since no one has asked, how are you doing?
Thanks for asking, anon, I appreciate it. I’m as okay as can be and I hope you are too.
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dad will you talk dirty to me
Uhm that would be inappropriate
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Instagram goals ? Mia.aaaa
Ahhh, you’re too nice! Thank you, thank you ☺️☺️
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can you adopt me pls
Get those adoption papers, I’m ready to sign
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R u my dad?
Heck yeah, I am, kiddo
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Biggest pet peeve?
Open doors and being misgendered on purpose.
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introvert or extrovert?
Introvert acting like an extrovert.
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Ur absolute fav meal/food & dessert ?????
I’m that boring oak who’s an absolute s*cker for broccoli and donuts.
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It should be known to all and embraced if you have pride in it.
Yeah, but I don’t really like sharing too much about myself. I’m a rather private person.
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Do all your friends know that you are trans, or is it still kept a secret from some?
I don’t think all my friends know. I haven’t discussed it with all of them. I just never really know how to address the topic, so I mostly leave it to them to bring it up. I suppose it’s not really much of a secret anymore, is it?
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What LGBTQ icon do you most look up to and why?
Oh, good question! It’s difficult to pick one, but I’d say Miles Mckenna. He’s trans and his family practically disowned him because of it. He didn’t really have anything or anyone, but he got back up and created a huge online safe place LGBTQ+ youth. He never gave up. That’s admirable, in my opinion.
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When did you start smoking
I’d say November 2016.
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How did your best friends take it
They were both incredibly supportive and to this day I couldn’t ask for better friends. They accepted it the moment I told them.
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What are you doing at this moment
Smoking and listening to PVRIS
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Who was the first person you came out to
Two of my best friends - @carluhn and @ingevorster_
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Are you racist?. Of any race at all
No, not at all. In case you haven’t noticed, I’m pretty open minded. I can see myself actually being with someone of any race.
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I think you're cute Tarila
Thank you!
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Would you ever consider an open relationship
Maybe, I suppose it depends on the situation.
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Who do you want to win the world cup
MY BOYS AKA BRAZIL ??
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I have a lot of respect for you! Just thought you ought to know
That truly warms my heart, thank you so much!
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Have you come out to your parents
I have, indeed. It’s still kind of a hush-hush topic though.
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How can such an attractive person like yourself, with such an incredible account have such few followers? Do people not know how to appricite beauty?
You’re really boosting my ego here, but thank you! Ag, I don’t know, but I’m not too bothered. The right people will follow me. I suppose it’s not about the number of followers you have, but rather who follows you. I want my followers to be respectful people.
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What do you identify as? He/him?
Yeah, those are my pronouns. ☝? Please respect that.
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wat maak jou dck hard bby?
Hoekom is almal ewe skielik so geïnteresseerd in my sekslewe? If you wanna know that sht, message me ?
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an***? Y? Y not? ?
Not sure what this means ?
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so jy het basically 'n dck? #trans
Well, no offense, maar ons slaap nie saam nie, so ek kan daardie inligting nie hier deel nie.
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Ur worst habit is?
Giving my love to the wrong people ?
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Biggest turn on?
Sass and A$$ (and maybe biting, but shh)
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Jy het 'n meisie?? ??sy moet leer wat jy geniet?????
Nee, ek het nie n meisie nie. Meisies is te gevaarlik. ?
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Jou gunsteling tipe p*rno?? ??????????????
Daar’s sekere goed wat ek net vir my meisie sal sê, buddy ?
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Do u hav a crush on any1 ??
Unfortunately, yes.
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Wait are you really Trans
Yeah, shocker, right?
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What are u greatful for ?
Being privileged enough to have an education and to live in a safe environment. I’m also grateful for the amazing, support friends I have.
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Are you Gay or Trans if I may ask
I’m actually trans. Ask me about my pronouns. Okay, cool.
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Is ur dck as big as ur ego
Hard to believe, but yes.
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the best feeling in the world is???
When your team scores a goal.
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U make my ***** wet daddy ???
Cool, but let me take you out on a date first.
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What kind of girl attracts you?
I want to be able to look into her eyes and see the softness of her soul shine through them. A sassy, fierce and sarcastic, yet gentle girl. A girl who can talk to me about puppies and memes, but also about the purpose of life and other philosophical topics. I don't care about appearance. I care about the soul.
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Hey! I love you and ur ma bessst freeeend! Love yourself babe x ur rad!
If this is who I think it is, I love you, homie
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All is fair in love and war?
Hate to be that person, but I completely agree with that.
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Is there anyone you regret letting into your life?
Yes, of course. I won’t name anyone though.
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Is jou peen nogsteets so lank??????
Vat hom in die an** Fanus!???
Kom kyk self, ek wil jou tog so graag wys ???
Ek weet dis presies waar jy dit wil hê, but I’m not into butt play, hey ??
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Brag about yourself. What are you really good at doing?
Disappointing people and making memes.
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Why do you think people like/hate you?
I am who I am.
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What's something that took you way too long to realize?
Two things:
1) People who are meant to be in your life, will be. You should not have to beg anyone to stay. Let them leave if they want - fighting for someone who doesn't want to stay, will only result in heartache and resentment.
2) Those who matter don't mind, and those who mind, don't matter.
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What makes you uncomfortable?
The real question is, what doesn't make me uncomfortable?
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What quote do you live by?
Live and let live.
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What needs to stop ?
People hating on others for being true to themselves.
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What type of people annoy you the most?
Ignorant/racist/homophobic/transphobic(!!) people.
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hello my favourite saffa, I found your account after all ? just wanted to say I'm super proud of you, dude. And ilysm ? InLoveAndDe4th_
Ahhh, finally! Thank you so much for all the support and love, I appreciate it more than words can tell. ?
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Is jy en Keenan siblings?
Hy is nie my bloedbroer nie, maar ja, seker so iets.
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I assume many people have crossed your path in life. Who was your biggest disappointment and why?
Many people have disappointed me in different ways. Some definitely hurt more than others. My biggest disappointment? Everyone who pretended to care about me and love me but then proceeded to talk sht behind my back. The ones who betrayed and humiliated me. But you know what? I've forgiven them. In a sense, I'm thankful for them. They've opened my eyes. They have helped me grow.
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Are you English or Afrikaans
I speak both quite fluently.
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Hoe lank is jou Peen????
Kom kyk self. ???
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Are you having a good day
It could be better, but it's not too bad, thanks mate. Hope you're having a good day.
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Do u have anxiety
Yes, I do.
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Do you have a girlfriend?
Nope, I'm single.
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What makes you genuinely happy?
Cigarettes, coffee and good company.
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Keenan van zyl?
What about him?
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How did you change so fast?
In what way?
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Still sad you don't love me too???❤️?? abxx_
Ay, join the club. ;)
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What's your name
Depends on who you ask.
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Who's your best friend
sht, that's a difficult one. I have many amazing friends and they're all dear to my heart. Most of them are in Curro in grade 11A though.
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Are you English or Afrikaans
I'm bilingual.
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You seem really cool ?
Thank you, glad you think so! Message me x
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Do you have a crush
Yes, I do, indeed.
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Ek mis jou!
Nie seker wie jy is nie, maar ek is amper 900% seker ek mis jou ook. ❤️
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You are such a beautiful person. I wish there were more people like you- deep intellectuals who understand what life is really all about. The reason why the world is in such a bad state is mainly because of society's superficiality.
Thank you, kind soul, I'm glad you think so highly of me. You're right though, superficiality is the curse of our age. We are far too concerned with issues of insignificance. It's all about having the latest iPhone and the most followers on Instagram. We'd rather talk about Miley Cyrus' new hairstyle and other gossip than discussing poverty, racism, queer rights and the fcked up system. Once we rearrange our priorities, I'm sure a change for the better is guaranteed.
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The secret to a good friendship is... ?
Respect and loyalty.
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Is it just me or do you also sometimes feel like you were born in the wrong generation? Having a deep soul in such a shallow world is truly heartbreaking.
Yes, I suppose, sometimes I do feel like I was born in the wrong generation. I mean, I'd have loved to be an open-minded, cynic grunge teen at Nirvana and Pearl Jam concerts in the 90's with people like me. People who appreciate the same things I do. People with similar, extraordinary minds. Sometimes I think I'd have loved it to be a free spirit, living with a group of hippie friends in the Woodstock, jamming to Janis Joplin in the early 70's. Once again, with a group of open minds and deep, compassionate souls. But then again, in terms of fighting for human rights, we've come so far. We've come too far to go back. I wouldn't exchange the handful of fundamental rights women, poc, and queer people have fought for, for anything in the world. After decades and decades of fighting, we're moving forward and I'm happy to be part of that.
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DM?
I'm assuming you're asking what it means. DM means direct message. Meaning messaging me directly on Instagram. Yeah, you get it.
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This is not meant to sound rude but are you a boy or a girl?
I am human.
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Lately I feel that I don't even know myself anymore. What must I do?
Get to know yourself again. Be fearless. Be confident. Be adventurous. Explore your identity and your interests. Try out new things. Do not limit yourself. If you're interested in something, do it, don't let fear or insecurity hold you back. fck everyone who says you can't do or be something. Start living for yourself. You have to realise that you're the one who's going to be stuck in your body for the rest of your life, no one else. So why live for someone else? Stop living to please others. It's not about them, it's about you and what you want. Yes, sometimes it will be absolutely terrifying to pursue whatever dream you have. It will be terrifying to stand up for yourself, your identity, and what you believe in. But don't let that stop you, okay? Step up and do it - own it, don't let it own you. I promise you, once you do that, you'll become confident in yourself and you will grow. You'll never know who you're supposed to be if you don't explore. Be patient. Be fearless. Be strong. You can do this.
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How did you stop caring about what other people think of you? I've been struggling with this fear for almost my entire life and it's holding me back. I need some advice.
It's a never-ending process, in a sense. See, I struggled with that for many years. What people thought of me, was what I would become. It consumed me. I allowed other people to determine who I should be. Their opinions of my identity became more important than my true identity. All those years I tried so fcking hard to fit in. I tried to be someone I wasn't. I pretended to like things I actually hated. I wasn't me. I had such a distorted, fcked up idea of who I was supposed to be. I was who they wanted me to be. And guess what? I still wasn't enough. Thing is, no matter what you do, it won't be enough. Someone will always try to pollute your mind with ideas that the real you is "wrong" or "weird". What you have to realise is that they don't mean sht. Their opinions don't mean sht. They're no better than you, alright? They're only better if you believe their lies. Confidence is key, my friend, even if it's fake. Yeah, you fcking fake it until you make it. Even if you do care, tell yourself you don't. Make them believe you don't give a sht. It might take you a while and the first few months you might still get panic attacks when a group of people laugh as you pass by and you might still feel like sht, but you better fcking hang in there. Because if you do hang in there, and you fake that confidence, it will become real. You will stop caring because once you have a taste of the freedom that comes with being your true self, there's no way you'll allow yourself to ever go back. If you ever need any more advice, hit me up. I only bite if you're into that, promise.
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I respect your views completely but I can't help but wish that you could experience the same. Perhaps someday you would. For what it is worth, I always keep you in my prayer and truly believe someday you would feel His presence?
You're kind, and I appreciate that, I do. But yes, sorry, I'm just not interested in having some kind of radical experience or meeting with your God.