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the.listener
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Jealousy towards your friends are usually brought on because of your own insecurities. Work on building your own self-esteem by focusing on the things you like most about yourself. By doing this you'll find happiness within yourself and will feel no need to be jealous of your friends at all.✨?
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It's all dependent on how he makes you feel. Age does not affect your ability to have a relationship with someone.
Sweetheart ❤❤ I'm good thanks, I hope you're doing well too?
Money atm
Why are you giving this person the power to control your life?
Lost*
I'm going to need a little bit more detail on this situation
Grade 6 was fun ?
Time heals everything ❤❤
I'm doing really really great, thank you❤ Aahhh besides all the uni stress, I'm all good?. You're an amazing person, always checking up on me?. I hope you're doing well❤❤
Hiii my love ❤❤❤❤
Right now, being an adult is really a huge waste of money?
You should most definitely not feel guilty for anything that you did because it sounds like this person deserved whatever you said to them. You should try to distance yourself from this ex that you still have feelings for since he clearly doesn't care about you and your feelings. As an impulsive person, I know your initial response to everything is to say whatever pops into your head first, but if you remain calm in any situation and allow yourself a moment to think about your actions, everyone will see that you're being the more mature person and moving past the issue. If anything angers you, think about it this way: if it's not going to concern you in 5 days time, don't spend more than 5 minutes dwelling on whatever it is. Move on and let go. That should be your motto for 2017. ✨
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Will answer last one ✨
Did you consider the fact that maybe he's looking into being more than just your friend? Now that you're out of school, things will be a lot easier and people become a lot more accessible. However, if you feel that he is pressurising you into having $ex with him, you need to make him aware that you're just not ready and if he gets upset about it then so be it. If this boy really cares about you, he would put your best interests first.
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Will answer the last one xx
Im really sorry that you lost your brother, but don't say that. Losing someone important to you is always difficult and can sometimes be completely life changing, but you cant stop living your life because of it. The person that you have lost wouldn't have wanted you to dwell on the negative of what happened, but rather on the fact that they are in a better place now. I know it hurts and it will hurt for a long time, but the pain gets easier to bear and life will eventually move on.
You should talk to him. Just as girls don't deserve to feel like they're not good enough for any boy, boys don't deserve to feel that way about any girl either. You need to be honest with him.
I get it. Girl code.
But being stuck in a lie is honestly NEVER a good thing. I can tell you from personal experience that it will eventually blow up, so get out, get out fast and do whatever you have to do to get out of the situation even if it means losing friends because a real friend wouldn't expect you to lie on her behalf.
The general idea is just to help people. Whether it's by providing advice, helping with making decisions or simply just being someone that's willing to pay attention to anything you want to be heard. Everyone can interpret the account however they feel that they want to. Kaytlin is a wonderful person with a pure soul and a kind heart and I'm honoured to have inspired her or anyone else to help others as well. Thank you for all your kind words, I appreciate it a lot.❤❤
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Okay woah? cutting yourself is NOT OKAY and I'm sorry if I sound like a scolding mom rn, but that's my honest opinion. It doesn't matter how bad things get and I know they can get really bad, but you should never resort to physically hurting yourself to get rid of pain because once you start, our won't be able to stop and it'll get out of control. So I'm not going to give you advice on how to hide your scars because you need to learn from it and understand that it's not okay. If I need to relieve myself of stress, I do violent things under supervision. For example, going paintballing (Lockdown Paintball Park is where I go), boxing, going to shoot clay pigeons (there's a really good place in stellenbosch), gun ranges are good too. There's always a much less painfully way to relieve yourself.
This.❤ Made.❤ My.❤ Day.❤
I'm doing good thanks, just been super busy lately. Humblest apologies to everyone for all the way late replies and the low activity on all my accounts?. It's going to be like this for a while so hopefully everyone can just bear with me for the next couple of weeks?. Thank you again for this, it's really sweet of you and I wish you weren't anon ?
I'm glad things are better now ? but don't worry about the nightmares, stay positive and all will be great
If you want him back, then you should be with him. Quit playing games?. Wanting to be with someone doesn't make you "weak". Then again, I can't tell you what you need to do because there had to be a reason that you broke up and you have to take that into consideration as well.
(Sorry for the late reply ❤)
Age doesn't affect the way you love someone. It doesn't affect the way your heart feels about someone. Maturity does.
Sometimes boys are nice to you just because they want to be and it doesn't always mean that they like you, so it's understandable that you would be confused about whether he does or not, but you should be able to tell if he does. He'll always want to talk to you and go out of his way just to see you. He also won't give any of his attention to another girl.
Thank you sm?, 18
You won't question it, even for a second
Just approach him, but try not to be too forward when you speak to him. The best thing is always just to talk ablut things otherwise you'll just be confused about everything all the time, but if thats not your style then maybe try being his friend first and see how that goes, once you fully get to know every side of his personality and you still like him, only then should you make a move.
Hiii?
So many?
as long as i know I'm helping others, it's all good ❤
will do x
thank you so much, this means everything to me ❤❤
Don't! ❤ you matter! ❤ you're important and you are most certainly loved ❤
Thank you!
Thank you! You are too a blessing ❤ and you deserve all the happiness and love in the world ⚡️ You're beautiful too angel!
This is so sweet ❤
14-16, because you're more mature ✨
Yes ❤ the more people that know about the account, the better!
I'm a girl, aah thank you. You're awesome man ❤
Why would you be struggling to get over him though? ? / But besides that, there is so much other guys out there that will treat you like the queen you are and that will care for you, etc. In life you're gonna fall in love more than once. ❤
Hey there ❤ so what I think you should do, is just tell her. I mean if you were in that situation, and another girl finds out; I'm sure you would want that girl to tell you right? If she thinks that you are jealous of her, so be it. You told her, that's the most important thing. And when she actually finds out for herself, she will soon apologize ✨ do the right thing and don't care whether she thinks you're jealous of her. You shouldn't be, you're unique, you're gorgeous and you're you ?
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Will reply to the last one.
Hey. ❤ There are a lot of reasons for trust issues, but just because you've been hurt before due to past incidents doesn't mean that it's going to happen again. His your boyfriend right? Well you should trust him. And if you don't, you need to learn to trust him. It might be hard but a lack of trust in a relationship is a destructive force. Without trust, it's hard to feel secure and you may be wondering all the time whether the other person is being faithful, truthful or even genuine. If you feel that he has other girlfriends you need to talk to him about what you're feeling. Dm me if you would like to talk more. Xx
SA; Brazil
Look, you refuse to take any of my advice so I don't know what you want me to tell you
I'm not exactly seeing the problem here? as long as he isn't forcing you to do anything you're uncomfortable with.
Ahh, thank you so much ?❤❤. I'm 18.
Baie dankie ?
No no no. VIOLENCE IS NEVER THE ANSWER.
This is honestly too kind, but thank you?❤❤
You're kinda talking to me.
It's okay to feel frustrated when someone continuously goes back on their promises. Just don't let it get to you. Don't let this ruin you. There's so much more out there that you haven't even began to grasp yet. Life gets better, it gets easier and it most certainly goes on, don't worry.❤
Radiate positivity ?
You're still so young. Don't get me wrong, I see where you're coming from, but you really should be focused on your future so I'm really glad that you are. It's good that you have a plan for your life to remove all the negative energy. Stay headstrong and keep working towards your goals.
It's never a good idea to jump to conclusions, so asking him something like that just simply out of speculation isn't a really good idea. However, you have no reason to feel bad about anything. Just as much as he has the right to be defensive, you have the right to be inquisitive. Also ask yourself why you choose to be with someone who doesn't make you a priority.
Feel free to speak all you want and keep strong please ❤❤
It's understandable that you feel weak if all you've ever had to be was strong. The reality is that life is inevitably not easy and you will always be surrounded by drama whether you like it or not. It's up to you to decide whether you're going to move past it or dwell on it. If you remain positive, only positivity will prevail. It's a brand new year so we all have a chance to make brand new choices to better our lives. Don't let this ruin your chance.
I'm good, thanks ❤
Think of it this way, atleast your mom is finally getting the chance to get away from all of this that resulted in physical and most likely, emotional hurt for her.
Firstly, get outside or get to a window as soon as possible. Not just to remove yourself from the situation, but also to get a breath of fresh air to steady your temper.
Resorting to violence is never the answer, all it does is stir the pot and cause more trouble. Avoid all situations where you are ever in a compromising position.
Remember if you approach the situation differently, in a positive way, then it won't be all that bad. For example, now you know what you don't want to end up like. Use this was motivation to constantly keep bettering yourself so that you can one day set a better example for your kids, better than the one that your dad set for you.
Besides, a window is nothing. Atleast he didn't physically hurt anyone.
Thank you??, you too?
This absolutely warmed my heart ?❤❤ You're just as awesome, love
You always make me smile ❤❤
It doesn't matter ?
Don't let it affect you. Be the bigger person and avoid stooping to her level. You know what the truth is and everyone who truly knows you should also be able to tell the truth from the lies, so don't sweat it babygirl ❤ and another thing, you won. You got the guy, no need to start any unnecessary drama because you came out on top in this story. Leave her be, let her run her mouth because eventually karma will catch up to her and we all know that karma's a stone cold btch.
Tbh, I think you need to back off. If not completely, then maybe just cut out the flirting and here's why: if you were in a relationship with any boy, how would you feel if you found out that he was flirting with other girls when he's supposed to be faithful to you? More than that, if he's willing to be flirty with you while he's in a relationship with someone else, who's to say that if you end up with him, that he won't do the exact same thing with someone else. I get that you want to be with him, but atm all it sounds like is that you're kind of his side chick and if you're okay with that, continue as you please. If you're not (and hopefully you're not?), try just being friends with him and find someone who makes you a priority and not just a second option.
No one ever said that you can't have more than one best friend
You're too kind ❤❤❤
Thank you ?
Racism, bigotry, homophobia, $exism and hypocrisy
This is so sweet. Thank you very very much ❤❤
It's always easier to talk over a cellphone, so maybe start with that and when you're ready to tell her in person, meet up.
It sounds like he was bummed out by the fact the you didn't reply when he asked you out and then tried to cover it up by saying that he sent it to the wrong number. You obviously need to talk f2f because he wouldn't be getting jealous when you're with other guys if he didn't feel something for you. Don't worry about the fighting, that's normal, but tone down on the insults because it could push him away. Just talk things through with him so that there's no confusion.
I just paid for a trip, so not that much actually ?
Sorry for the late reply ❤
Yes, you might truly love him, but maybe it's better to distance yourself from each other for a while. You know the saying goes "if you love something, let it go and if it was truly yours, it will come back to you". That's kinda how weird life is sometimes. It might not have worked out right now, but that shouldn't mean you should loose all hope. Maybe one day when you're both older and kinder, things will work out for the better.
As for now, I suggest you enjoy being on your own. Single life is the best life. ❤
Pizza?
You are too kind, my girl ❤❤ I'm doing great, thank you so much for the concern ??
Thank you so much for this ❤?
It's going to be tough, don't get me wrong. Like I said, it's always difficult to get over someone that you've let into your heart. You need to understand that even though you miss him, there is a reason you guys broke up. Look to the future. You'll have the chance to meet someone who will treat you a million times better than this boy ever could and it'll leave you wondering why you ever longed for him. Another thing, September isn't really that long ago so it's understandable that you still miss him. Allow yourself to mourn for the relationship, but don't be roped into trying to get it back again. Be sad, that's okay, but when you're ready, let your hair down, slip into your favourite dress, put on some make-up and your best pair of heels and go paint the town red. Let everyone know that the Queen is back and she's ready to slay.?
You need to assess the situation. There's obviously a reason that both relationships didn't work out before, so who's to say it will work out a second time? Obviously you'll always care about both of them because you once let them into your heart and it's not always easy to let people go, but don't let your feelings blind you. It ultimately is up to you, I can't decide for you, but make sure that you don't settle for anything less than what you deserve.