if we’re talking ab taking care of urself in general after $ex? def to pee !!! we do not want an uti. rinse & wash ur “parts” (u don’t rly need soap for that but if u rly rly want to, maybe w unscented soap at best) u know what just shower if u have the time and drinks LOTS of water (:
if we’re talking ab aftercare, the most important thing to me after $ex is for the person u sleep with to take care of u (both taking care of each other actually)
gentle kisses, soft massages & even something as little as bringing a washcloth is aftercare to me (((: